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Hi Oloni, My boyfriend has been responding to another woman via text messages “Hello Babe” “Good Afternoon Babe” “Good night babe” I do not even get those text messages we have been together for a long time. What is your opinion please 26. May 2022

Excuse me? You need to pull him and ask him what’s going on especially if he doesn’t speak to you like that. If this is the only problem, then tell him it makes you uncomfortable. If the relationship itself is piss poor, plus this on top, rethink this relationship maybe?

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Hey Oloni. My girlfriend has told me we’ve become our of sync sexually. In a nutshell I’m not satisfying her. How can I fix this asap? 26. May 2022

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Hi Oloni. My boyfriend is seriously considering getting a tattoo of his mothers face on his chest and I’m simply very uncomfortable with this. I’ve told him that I don’t like the idea of it, particularly considering moments of intimacy and I’ve even suggested a different placement of the picture or maybe getting her name or birthday but he just isn’t hearing it. His mum is lovely and I have nothing against her but just don’t want to see her face on my man’s body. Would it be unreasonable if I tell him I’d leave him if he goes through with it? 26. May 2022

Oh lord! It’s his body, so the most you can do explain your feelings. If he still isn’t trying to hear you, then that his very permanent decision.

Oloni

Hello oloni, I’ve never told any of my girlfriends but I’m into cuckolding something about my partner getting pleasure and not caring about me excites me but my problem is I’ve never told any of them the ones that have cheated I played dumb like I didn’t know but subtly helped them like paid for her holiday or pay for all of her nights out I always wanted to tell them that it turns me on but always felt like they would all get put off me how can I bring it up? 13. May 2022

Have a conversation about fantasises! It’s the best way to set the tone and reveal another side of you. Ask if they have Any fantasies of their own and start off with something a bit light, continue exchanging till you’re comfortable to explain what you’ve just told me. Good luck!

Oloni

Hi Oloni, I’ve been having threesomes with a friend and his girlfriend for over a year and lately they’ve been in a bad place, however he still wishes for us to continue with our arrangement. Only issue is, he doesn’t pay her much attention during the deed and most of his focus is on me which puts me in an awkward place. Not sure what to do. 13. May 2022

I think you wrote in because you know it feels wrong and possibly uncomfortable. If him and his girlfriend are having issues and he’s making you the primary care during a threesome, ask yourself if this is a mess you want to be involved in. It also sounds like you might actually like him. I say stop having group sex until you know everyone is good and stable and there isn’t any awkwardness.

Oloni

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