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I had a threesome with my sisters boyfriend and her. We’re twins and done it a few times but now he keeps trying to message me behind her back. I love my sister and although we’re both sexually open i’m sure this wasnt part of the agreement. Do i tell her or should i just stop having sex with them both. No one knows about this
15. June 2017
I’ll be honest, I find this so odd. Threesomes can be quite complicated, but to then include family? You all messed up seriously there. But this is simple, let you sister know what’s happening and stop engaging in threesomes with them. If you want to be involved in one there are plenty of couples who are always looking for a new third party join in.
Oloni
I have been stress for the last view months and the way i deal with it is by visiting prositute. I’m highly ashamed of it as I’m engaged. I’m trying my hardest to stop but i keep coming back. Any advice on how to stop. Should i mention this to my fiancee.
15. June 2017
If you’re in a monogamous relationship, I think it’d be best to just pump your breaks. There’s clearly an issue here and a reason as to why you feel the need to visit sex workers. Be honest and open with yourself and your fiancee. By continuing this relationship, you’re only being selfish and thinking of yourself which is very unfair.
Oloni
Hi oloni, I’ve recently just had a baby and i went through my partners phone only to find out he had been entertaining another female. He has been taking her out to eat and they’ve been doing stuff together this was all during my pregnancy. I have confronted him about it and he said he is sorry that he will never do it again. I asked him if he has slept with her and he says no. I feel really uneasy and I feel like I cannot trust him anymore. He always makes nasty comments about my weight bearing in mind I just had a baby I just don’t know what to do anymore.
14. June 2017
You need to make your own decision and figure out if his energy is what you really need around you.
Have a word with him regarding his nasty comments. It’s incredibly insensitive and he needs to know.
Oloni
Hi Oloni! I’ve been dating my boyfriend for over two years. When we started dating, I was on the pill and we never used condoms. Eventually I stopped taking the pill and he never got in the habit of using condoms. Recently it’s begun concerning me (it should’ve in the beginning b/c risk of stds I know) because I fear now that we live together I risk getting pregnant. When I brought up the discussion he was against me getting BC because he feels it will eventually affect fertility when I attempt to conceive. He’s also unwilling to use condoms. My question is, am I wrong to believe that even after two years something like this could be a deal breaker for me?
14. June 2017
Please ignore your boyfriend. See a sexual health nurse and STOP having unprotected sex. Your sexual health is important.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, this girl have beeen seeing each other for a good 6/7 months she then starts applying the where is this going pressure on me. I’m clearly dating to marry however I’m not in the right situation to do so atm (financially) she’s older than me so I can sense her frustration, I’m 22 final yr in uni btw. The relationship is slowly becoming more and more difficult. Like we’ll only message each other once or twice a week (small meaningless stiff convo’s). How can i fix this before I let this amazing gal go
14. June 2017
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