Hey oloni is it inappropriate to post a bikini picture while in a relationship?
15. May 2018
Not at all. It’s your body at the end of the day.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, my boyfriend and I got into a heated argument. He was on my bed in my flat and I asked him not to take off his clothes coz we he just broken up and we’re trying to be friends. He disregarded me as usual and took off his clothes. I was uncomfortable and left to the other room. I then came back after a few mins and told him I’d like him to leave. He says he will leave when he wants to. The argument gets heated but not physical. Anyways I end up calling the police. Was I wrong?
6. May 2018
Not at all. He’s a crazy bastard.
Oloni
Dear oloni, my boyfriend keeps making comments about my appearance always asking why my boobs are saggy and why I have no bum or hips but still says he loves me? Wtf do I do he’s starting to make me feel insecure
6. May 2018
Dear Oloni. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. At first I wasn’t bothered by his home-situation, but as we are getting older I feel as if there needs to be some sort of change. I feel as if my boyfriend’s mother won’t let him be great. We are Africans, so you may understand how stricts some parents may be. He has a little sister and he is almost like her caregiver i.e. He needs to bring her to school early in the morning, pick her up from school, watch her and feed her. All of this is nice, but he is the only one doing this in his household. He has a senior brother and a father and they don’t seem to be doing anything. Lately this has been causing me to be irritated, because we can’t even seem to be doing stuff without him doing some sort of chores for his mother i.e. groceries. Or he’ll be at my place and his mother will call him to pick up his sister, mind you we live in two different cities. I have a hard time coping with this, because he can’t just stop helping his mom. Plus his mom is very headstrong: what she wants, is what she will gets. As you can imagine this is a very difficult situation. Since he is accepting all of this, i have been looking at him sideways… like why won’t he atleast speak up?
6. May 2018
You’ll have to talk to him and tell your man how you feel, there might be a specific reason as to why he’s always helping. A lot of parents rely on their kids to help raise their siblings and usually bother the responsible one.
Oloni
Dear oloni .. I had sex with my bf on the last day of my period ofcourse with protection I even used birth control pill to avoid stories that touch right after ..now my period is 4days late I’m freaking out ..
6. May 2018
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