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I would advise taking it slowly especially as your last relationship was toxic. I say this because when you leave something awful you assume that the new warm feeling is 100x better, when in reality it’s not as amazing as you think. There’s a chance your past relationship could cloud the judgment of how great your new situation is. Heal first! Oloni You need to pump the breaks on your relationship and ne honest about how you feel bu telling him, exactly what you told me. There’s a chance you could end up resenting him, if you try to pretend you’re ok. Your feelings are valid, so speak up! Oloni If you hate it, you hate it. Don’t force it! Find other ways to pleasure him such as hand jobs, and trying new sex positions. Sex shouldn’t feel like a chore, it should be enjoyable for both people involved. Oloni I see why it’d make her uncomfortable. Perhaps this is a step too far for your gf?? Relationships come with boundaries even people in non-monogamous relationships have them. Yes, she might be cool with house visits from time to time, but now she might think you’re going OTT. She’s given you an ultimatum, so it’s down to you to decide what to do. Talk to her. Also, does your best friend not have her own love life. Why is she borrowing someone else’s man? Best friend or not. Eurgh! Oloni Message him and say, “whats gooooood?’ Oloni
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