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I just lost my virginity a few days ago now. Apparently it enhances your feelings for that person? Is it true and if so what else do you feel like after losing it, right now I feel kinda sad but then I want it again
5. May 2015
Sex in general can enhance your feelings with who ever you’re sleeping with. I guess because it’s your first time for others feelings can be even more stronger. It really does depend.
My boy and his girl broke up last week, she came to see me yesterday to talk about it and to cut the story short we ended up having sex. i feel really bad, i cant even reply his tweets or messages. Am i a bad person ?
5. May 2015
His ex had no business being at your house. I think you should tell him, just don’t expect the friendship to be full of roses.
Ok so I don’t know if I’m being stupid and naive or I’m looking into this too deeply.. Basically I had sex with a guy and when he was done he came… On my back.. I told him at the time that I felt violated lol I dunno, am I over reacting or do I have the right to feel this way? I mean I’ve heard of it but It’s just never happened to me.
5. May 2015
If you feel violated, then you feel violated. I’d say he should have asked before doing that or let you know before hand.
Hi Oloni, I’ve known this guy for 2 years and we been seeing each other for a year. However it’s a long distanxe thing and he doesn’t want to get into a relationship with me, when i do. I don’t know whether to carry on progressing what we go or leave it?
4. May 2015
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Is it best to let someone go if you keep hurting them even if most of the time you don’t even realise you’re doing it.
4. May 2015
I’d say so, if you don’t know what hurts your partner after a period of time even AFTER it’s been discussed, you have to rethink some things.
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