I’d say try using a bullet for starters, he can use it as part of foreplay. It’s great for stimulating the clitoris too. It’s small in size unlike giant rabbits and dildos, where most guys start to rethink why you need their penis in the first place.

Blind folds and and hand cuffs are always fun too, especially for beginners. Try using edible lube also, this makes giving oral pleasure even more enjoyable.

He’s not that interested, don’t let him waste your time if his actions show nothing.

Of course not & he’s out there.

Thank you for sharing that.

It’s great that he’s looking out for you, but unless you’ve signed up to AA meetings, you don’t need someone policing your alcohol intake, especially if you’ve never given him a reason to. I’m sure he just wants you to drink responsibly that’s clear, but telling you how much you can drink is a little bit controlling.

Discuss it with him and find out what the real issue is.