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Hey, basically I’ve been dating this guy for 2 years now, last year he cheated on me and I forgave him, but recently his best friend who is a girl has been sleeping at his to the extent where she leaves her bra around laying in his room and also makes jokes about kissing him. So I told her to stay away from my boyfriend, or I’ll beat her up. Is there something going on or am I just over reacting. 6. May 2015

He is STILL cheating on you and she is disrespecting your relationship.

My girlfriend is never satisfied with any efforts I make and manages to point out flaws in everything about me. Every couple of weeks when she realises how much she is draining me out she’ll be nice for a few hours. That brings me to my point, she’s ALWAYS rude. We’ve spoken about it so many times, I know I am not perfect but I also know I’m not this useless person she sometimes make me feel like. What’s do I do? Am I attention seeking? 6. May 2015

You’re not seeking attention, you’re emotionally frustrated, so question yourself. Why are you with her? Why are you allowing her to make you feel this way? She’ll only do what you let her.

You need to sit her down and be open with her, explain what you have just told me. This can’t be healthy, a relationship is supposed to be full of joy not a constant battle.

I haven’t seen my question answered yet so I’ll try again. My relationship ended as quickly as it started. We have remained friends but I feel like he thinks he still has some sort of ownership of me. He tells me he doesn’t want to be with me but will still try and flirt with me or call me to go out with him. I’ve stuck to my guns with strictly no sexual contact but he makes jokes about waiting it. I don’t know if I should drop him because I’m starting to become confused 6. May 2015

Get rid of him, he’s wasting your time and toying with your emotions, because he feels like he can.

I’m too scared to have sex I can hardly fit a tampon in there! 6. May 2015

Lots of foreplay and lubricant can help a penis fit inside comfortably.

After a series of arguments etc my man and I are on the same page again. What little surprises can I do for him to add abit more romance etc in the relationship, sexual and non sexual suggestions please x 6. May 2015

Okay sexually? I’d say dress up. I’ve found out that a lot of women are not buying sexy play wear for the bedroom as they used to once upon a time and not lingerie, I’m talking sexual fantasy play wear.

Romance do something he’d enjoy in terms of a date. What does HE like doing? Experience that with him. Good luck.

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