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Hey Oloni, my boyfriend is my best friend and we’ve been together for a few years (he’s the only guy i’ve been with and vice versa). Problem: i’ve faked my orgasm every single time and now (the sex is great). I don’t know what to do because i’ve been faking it for so long so if if i suddenly stop he’ll be like what have i done different. Help!! 10. January 2019

Women fake orgasms all the time. As I’m typing this, thousands of women all over the world are sadly faking one.

It happens. It’s extremely common, but now it’s time to stop and talk to him.

Many women do not reach a level of climax through penetration alone, so you have to think of other ways that might help you cum.

There’s a huge possibility that your body might enjoy clitoral stimulation, which will help you orgasm. Explain this to you boyfriend and remember this during sex as well as a good amount of foreplay(15-20 mins).

It’s also important to remember that for some women not having an orgasm doesn’t mean the sex was bad.. but let’s face it, we’d all like it.

Oloni


If a guy likes a finger in his booty or for a woman to play with his bum, does that make him gay or bisexual? 10. January 2019

No, because you’re a woman. That’s not how being gay/bi works.

Oloni


Hey Oloni. How long is too long to be dating and sleeping with someone without having a title? It’s been 7 months and the last time we spoke about it he maintained that he doesn’t like to “rush into things”. I’m not desperate for a title but I’d just like to make sure I’m not being used for sex/food/company/a place to stay. We get a long flawlessly and this is the only issue we face. Thanks in advance 10. January 2019

Anything longer than 3 months to me is a joke. Especially if you spend a lot of time with that person. 7 months, just seems as though he’s trying to get the benefits of a relationship without calling you his. Pump your breaks and talk to him about it.

If he still gives you the same excuse, it’s down to you to decide on what to do.

Oloni


Had holiday romance now I have STI, no way to get in touch with the guy. Think I found his Instagram but only has one post. What would you do? 10. January 2019

DM the account and try to verify if it’s the guy you slept with. If it is, let him know.

I also think it’s amazing that you’re trying to get hold of him, others wouldn’t bother.

Oloni


Hi Oloni, I have a fb who I have been seeing on and off since May. Last night I went round, soon as we were done he said he was done for the night, basically hinting at me to leave. This has never happened as I usually stay over. He never said beforehand that I can’t stay over. I left straightaway as I didn’t feel comfortable staying after what he said and stormed out. Did I over react? Or what should I have done instead? 10. January 2019

You have a right to feel annoyed. After sex manners is quite important, so what you should do is tell him how it made you feel and that in the future he should let you know whether you can stay around or not.

Oloni


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