Saying he didn’t see your missed call is a white lie. Saying you look extremely amazing as he tries to rush you out the door for dinner reservations, even though he’s not really fond of the dress you’re wearing is a white lie.

Fibbing about how much he makes because of his fragile ego is just bizarre. You’d have thought that he would have eventually come clean after a couple of months, but to lie for two years, again is insane. Your feelings are valid, because if he can lie about this for so long what else is he hiding from you?

You do need to have a conversation and express how you feel, he knows what he did was wrong so don’t allow him to manipulate the situation. If he never wanted to disclose how much he made to you prior, then that would have been fine, but this is just a form of financial infidelity which has to be addressed.

It’s up to you to decide what you’d like to do in terms of continuing the relationship after speaking on the matter. Is this something you can forgive? Is how much your partner makes a big deal breaker for you? Is being a bloody liar a deal breaker for you?

Oloni

Me too!!!

You need to be on your own not in a relationship my love, well not a monogamous relationship anyway. From what you’ve written in, it doesn’t sound like you’re ready to be in a commitment and that’s fine. There’s clearly a reason you enjoy communicating with guys from your past, as well as getting the attention. Talk to your current boyfriend explain how you feel and decide what to do from there.

Oloni

I’m going to guess that you mean exclusively dating. If that’s the case it’s completely up to you to decide what to do. A break isn’t an excuse to sleep with other people. It should be for thinking about what you both want for the future of your relationship.You’re in a long distance commitment and it clearly hasn’t been working, so maybe you need to come to a wise decision for yourself.

Oloni

It’s normal to feel insecure about your genitals, but you have nothing to feel embarrassed about, I’m positive!

Oloni