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Send him my way.. jkjk. Try using lube and practicing much longer foreplay
Oloni
Hi oloni , this situation is stressing me, me and my boyfriend broke up after two years and we are trying to work it out i know he loves me but he’s not a type of person to do big gestures to show it. He has this female best friend that lives in Birmingham and shes going to get a BBL in turkey , she asked him to go as none of her family are supporting her and he told me she hasn’t told none of her friends . He decided to go with her and i cant agree with this as I’ve never met her and i find it weird as he wouldn’t even want to go on holiday with me , he also claims shes paying for everything for him. I feel like he always has to be captain-save-a-hoe and feel like its his responsibility to be there for his friends . Even when he told me he’s going i got upset and he didn’t even try make me feel better Am i being insecure with not trusting him or should i cut him off as my gut feeling tells me this isn’t normal.
22. May 2019
He’s unserious, she’s unserious.. don’t join their unseriousness and leave this guy alone. She has other friends to ask, she just wants an excuse to get even closer to him. But him like a fool will go because it’s a free trip and he doesn’t care THAT much about fixing things with you.
But you know this.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, I need to some help. I’ve just started seeing this guy (for about 3 weeks) and I really like him. He’s a good man, with a great job and seems to be very genuine. I have a problem that I’ve applied to work on cruise ships and could potentially be away for 6 months starting in August. I feel very strong feelings for this man and it’s conflicting for me what to do. Would it be crazy to expect a man to wait for me. He’s also potentially going to move to London to complete his traineeship to become a solicitor (takes around 2 years), so he’d be about 2 hours from me anyway. What should I do? Pursue the relationship or the career (with hopes that he’ll wait out). Thank you x
22. May 2019
Oh babe just focus on making sure you get this new job. It’s literally been all of 3 weeks, it’s not that serious lol. If it’s meant to be, once you get back you can take off from where you left. Don’t over think it.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, my mcm and I are good but he has me blocked from seeing his story, he doesn’t know that I know it, but I find it a bit odd. Should I ask him why
22. May 2019
Which kind of mcm is this please? Bring it up. Do you constantly bang on about what he posts? Weird one.
Oloni
Hi oloni, my partner has really bad oral hygiene in my opinion. This was never something I noticed when we were dating at the beginning but the more time we spend together I’m noticing. Sometimes he can just have like not bad breath but not healthy breath like I can hack it but he refuses to go to the dentist when his gums are bleeding, I’ve noticed he brushes his teeth no more than 3 minutes.. I really feel like just showing him how it’s done including the tongue but he’s sensitive how do I approach this in a loving way. I can imagine for me should it be the other way round id be completely embarrassed and want to do it in a way that doesn’t affect his confidence.
22. May 2019
Hey love! Aww. I understand why you feel like it’s a tough one, but I’m a firm believer of “if they don’t tell you at home, they will tell you outside”. I also feel like when you’re in a relationship, you should be able to be honest on certain matters. It might sting, but so what? You’re doing it out of love. Just work on your delivery and help him book a dentist appointment.
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