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hi Oloni, my (recently ex) boyfriend took my virginity, and then broke up with me a week later.. he also gave me gonorrhoea. i really trusted this guy he told me he loved me even after I disclosed to him how I have trust issues and how I just want him to be honest with me etc I just don’t understand how someone can lie for soo long just for sex, I just feel so betrayed and im having a hard time getting over it that I’ve kinda turned to food and have gained so much weight over the last two weeks. He started seeing someone else a week before breaking up with me and blocked me on snapchat while he snapped pics of him and her (when we were still together) he texted me and broke up with me and when I confronted him about the other girl he blocked me on whatsapp.. how do I get over this violation.. it honestly hurts so much cause I really loved this guy and didn’t think he’d betray me like that
24. April 2017
Hey darling, I’m so sorry for what that jerk put you through and I honestly hope you never have to deal with a person who is that deceitful, ever again.
Please do get another check up in three months time as a follow up from your last treatment and make sure you use condoms in the future. In life a lot of us go through sad and terrible relationships, the bet way to heal from them is by reflecting and accepting. It may not feel like it now, but in a couple of months you’ll be happy that you got out of that commitment. Keep yourself busy, spend more time with friends, pick up a new hobby. Do not spend any more time feeling down in the dumps about a loser like.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, I’m a black girl and I’ve been seeing this white guy for a while. I really like him and he’s so sweet but there have been a few times when we’re in bed together and he says things during sex that are a bit racist/degrading (e.g. Calling me his slave and he’s my master) I’ve told him not to say it anymore and he doesn’t but sometimes when he’s a bit drunk he says it again when we’re having sex. I really really like him but I don’t know what to do!!! Any advice??
24. April 2017
Hey hun, it’s really simple you need to dump him. He’s a racist and you are his fetish. Get rid.
Oloni
So I asked on you CC where I can get some good lube from as in what websites or adult stores. And also where to get vibrators from. But you told not me for advice ask on simply oloni. What advice do I need??
23. April 2017
I only answer sex & relationship related questions here. My curious cat isn’t for that. I also answered and said adult toy stores.
Oloni
Hey Oloni I’ve been seeing this guy for one year now, on and off, he’s 9 years older than me, I’m 20. So, we always break up because when he’s angry about something he cuts communication, will go off for days ignoring my calls and texts. We got back together a month ago and apparently I said something and he’s off again, ignoring all forms of communication ,he knows I dislike it and it’s so much torture I cry all day. He says he loves me, it’s the best connection I’ve had with anyone. Am I playing myself or should I just stay because maybe it’s just him
23. April 2017
That’s a terrible habit to have in a relationship. You don’t cut off all communication with your girlfriend when you have a disagreement. Do not settle for it or it will continue.
Oloni
Oloni… Is it weird/uncommon to be a female virgin at 21?
23. April 2017
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