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Hi Oloni, I’m a black girl and I’ve been seeing this white guy for a while. I really like him and he’s so sweet but there have been a few times when we’re in bed together and he says things during sex that are a bit racist/degrading (e.g. Calling me his slave and he’s my master) I’ve told him not to say it anymore and he doesn’t but sometimes when he’s a bit drunk he says it again when we’re having sex. I really really like him but I don’t know what to do!!! Any advice??
24. April 2017
Hey hun, it’s really simple you need to dump him. He’s a racist and you are his fetish. Get rid.
Oloni
So I asked on you CC where I can get some good lube from as in what websites or adult stores. And also where to get vibrators from. But you told not me for advice ask on simply oloni. What advice do I need??
23. April 2017
I only answer sex & relationship related questions here. My curious cat isn’t for that. I also answered and said adult toy stores.
Oloni
Hey Oloni I’ve been seeing this guy for one year now, on and off, he’s 9 years older than me, I’m 20. So, we always break up because when he’s angry about something he cuts communication, will go off for days ignoring my calls and texts. We got back together a month ago and apparently I said something and he’s off again, ignoring all forms of communication ,he knows I dislike it and it’s so much torture I cry all day. He says he loves me, it’s the best connection I’ve had with anyone. Am I playing myself or should I just stay because maybe it’s just him
23. April 2017
That’s a terrible habit to have in a relationship. You don’t cut off all communication with your girlfriend when you have a disagreement. Do not settle for it or it will continue.
Oloni
Oloni… Is it weird/uncommon to be a female virgin at 21?
23. April 2017
Not at all, there are plenty.
Oloni
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Hello oloni so there’s this app where you can keep track of people’s locations if you both have it and I didn’t believe it when my boyfriend told me so we both got it and now he won’t stop using it to check where I am cos he always doubts what I tell him when we’re not together. He doesn’t trust me for shit and I can’t blame him cos I lied about stuff in the past but really how can a relationship work when you’re always going on an app to monitor my location?? And if I dare delete it or turn my location off he’ll go ballistic and say I’m cheating. What do I do??
23. April 2017
This is so creepy, it’s unreal. I understand that trust has to be earned again, but this isn’t the way to go about it. If you allow him to keep stalking your whereabouts, it’ll give him leeway to do other ridiculous things such as asking you to take a selfie everytime you’re out so he can see your sorroundings. It’s controlling. Put your foot down or leave immediately.
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