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Hey Oloni, so me and this guy have been “seeing” each other – sleeping together with the agreement neither of us sleeps with someone else. But at the same time he’s speaking to god knows how many girls. I think it’s fair to say I’ve fallen in love with him because of who he is under this ‘savage’ persona, but we wouldn’t ever work in a relationship – he’s made this very clear. Yet I’m willing to sit back and be his fuck buddy if it means I can have him in my life. Please help I feel so lost!
8. May 2017
Hey hun, I think it’d be best if you stop sleeping with him as this won’t turn out good. That’s the only answer I have for you.
Oloni
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Hi oloni, I’ve been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months. So my period came earlier than expected. I slept over my boyfriends house and I got his sheets and his dressing gown covered in some blood. When he saw it he was really annoyed and we had a little argument over it and I told him to get over it because he has another gown and I’ll buy him new sheets. He then told me His dressing gown is the last thing his mother gave him before she passed couple months ago. And now I feel so bad because whenever he’s at home literally that’s all he wears. I’m freaking out because the stain is really strong and covers a large area and won’t come out. What do you think I should do/ how can I make it upto him?
8. May 2017
Hey darling, these things happen. You can’t control something which is very natural an you certainly shouldn’t be arguing about it. Although I understand where his frustration is coming from, the best thing to do is to take it to a dry cleaner.
Oloni
What’s up oloni, I’ve been following you for a while & would love to get your opinion. I am a man & 23 year old virgin. Reason why I haven’t sex yet is because I was sick at a younger age & didn’t go through puberty until after high school(probably 20). I’m really not embarrassed about being a virgin but of my situation but my problem is my penis size. I’m about 6 in on hard(“so called” average) I’m insecure about. With my size be compromised by my health. Do you think I’ll ever find a girl to accept me?
8. May 2017
Hey thank you for following me Mr! I really appreciate it. You honestly have nothing to worry about and you will find a woman who will accept you. It’s important to remember that we all have our own insecurities so the best thing you can do is try to find your confidence.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, I’m the girl that sent in the question about messing up the bedsheets! Your answer was so simple that it made me feel silly loool but better at the same time. I was just worried because I never used to be like this until of recent and the guy I’m sleeping with is always amazed by it so it just seemed like he’s never seen it before (and he’s slept with A LOT of girls lol). But thank you for reassuring me. You’ve definitely encouraged me to continue enjoying my sex life and climaxing to the maxxxxxx. Wooo!!
8. May 2017
Hi Oloni. I had a male best friend (not friends anymore obviously) who recently got a girlfriend around January time. He has told me that hes liked me in the past a few years back but i have always played it off because I’ve always looked at him as a brother. From when he was getting with his new girlfriend and even up to when we fell out, he was always asking to do sexual things including sex. Ive always told him no and also reminded him that he is in a relationship. He confided in me about all the other lies he has told his girlfriend whilst being in a relationship with her, which i havent told anyone. Recently we fell out and his girlfriend accused me of having bad intentions for their relationship and that i have feelings for him and a lot of other disrespectful stuff was said from the 2 of them, which he allowed her to say all of that when he knows all of the things i just mentioned. Even during all the abuse i still didn’t tell his girlfriend the truth. I decided from all of that, that he is not to be trusted friendship wise and that i do not want to be friends. Was i overreacting?
8. May 2017
No, you did the right thing. Count yourself lucky for not dating him.
Oloni
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