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Hi oloni, I’ve been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months. So my period came earlier than expected. I slept over my boyfriends house and I got his sheets and his dressing gown covered in some blood. When he saw it he was really annoyed and we had a little argument over it and I told him to get over it because he has another gown and I’ll buy him new sheets. He then told me His dressing gown is the last thing his mother gave him before she passed couple months ago. And now I feel so bad because whenever he’s at home literally that’s all he wears. I’m freaking out because the stain is really strong and covers a large area and won’t come out. What do you think I should do/ how can I make it upto him?
8. May 2017
Hey darling, these things happen. You can’t control something which is very natural an you certainly shouldn’t be arguing about it. Although I understand where his frustration is coming from, the best thing to do is to take it to a dry cleaner.
Oloni
What’s up oloni, I’ve been following you for a while & would love to get your opinion. I am a man & 23 year old virgin. Reason why I haven’t sex yet is because I was sick at a younger age & didn’t go through puberty until after high school(probably 20). I’m really not embarrassed about being a virgin but of my situation but my problem is my penis size. I’m about 6 in on hard(“so called” average) I’m insecure about. With my size be compromised by my health. Do you think I’ll ever find a girl to accept me?
8. May 2017
Hey thank you for following me Mr! I really appreciate it. You honestly have nothing to worry about and you will find a woman who will accept you. It’s important to remember that we all have our own insecurities so the best thing you can do is try to find your confidence.
Oloni
Hi Oloni, I’m the girl that sent in the question about messing up the bedsheets! Your answer was so simple that it made me feel silly loool but better at the same time. I was just worried because I never used to be like this until of recent and the guy I’m sleeping with is always amazed by it so it just seemed like he’s never seen it before (and he’s slept with A LOT of girls lol). But thank you for reassuring me. You’ve definitely encouraged me to continue enjoying my sex life and climaxing to the maxxxxxx. Wooo!!
8. May 2017
Hi Oloni. I had a male best friend (not friends anymore obviously) who recently got a girlfriend around January time. He has told me that hes liked me in the past a few years back but i have always played it off because I’ve always looked at him as a brother. From when he was getting with his new girlfriend and even up to when we fell out, he was always asking to do sexual things including sex. Ive always told him no and also reminded him that he is in a relationship. He confided in me about all the other lies he has told his girlfriend whilst being in a relationship with her, which i havent told anyone. Recently we fell out and his girlfriend accused me of having bad intentions for their relationship and that i have feelings for him and a lot of other disrespectful stuff was said from the 2 of them, which he allowed her to say all of that when he knows all of the things i just mentioned. Even during all the abuse i still didn’t tell his girlfriend the truth. I decided from all of that, that he is not to be trusted friendship wise and that i do not want to be friends. Was i overreacting?
8. May 2017
No, you did the right thing. Count yourself lucky for not dating him.
Oloni
Hi oloni, So I know your platform is for women but I don’t know what to do in this situation. I’ve been talking to this girl for about 4 months now over social media and recently we met up and then I discovered she was really tall. I never asked her how tall she was whilst we were talking but when we met up she was taller than me. I’m 6’2 and she must be at least 6’4/5 and I the height gap made me feel so uncomfortable. But when we were talking it was just like over social media everything flowed so well. She even said thanks for not being grossed out at her being so tall but truthfully I wasn’t feeling it. She’s so nice and her personality is cool but Her height has really thrown me off her and I don’t know what to do. We still talk and she said she wants to meet up again, but I’m unsure If I want to end it because if she finds out it’s because of her height I think it’ll crush her. Any advice?
7. May 2017
If you’re not attracted to her as a whole then you can’t force yourself to look past it. It’s just one of those things, just be respectful and honest and thank her for her time… or suggest you’d prefer to meet up as friends.
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