Woah. Well first.. thanks for that Snapchat hack. I’m sure plenty of women who should not be going through their mans phone will appreciate it.

Back to the dilemma… he’s clearly manipulated the situation and he’s lame for doing so. Yes, you were wrong for going through his phone.. but it certainly doesn’t trump his inappropriate actions. Do not fall for this. You both do need a breather, and when you do speak next explain your thoughts on his behaviour. How are you supposed to trust him again?

As for your holiday together.. if i were you, I’d look into trying to getting my money back. Why would you want to be on holiday with someone who has gone out of their way to save women on snapchat as ‘team sc’ and family members? It shows his actions were premeditated. Nah sis.

Oloni

Why are you living with someone you’ve dated for 10 months? He’s gotten comfortable. Move out and tell him how you feel again.

Oloni

Try sitting her down and mentioning everything you’ve noticed, she could be going through stuff, so it’s important to try your best to have a conversation. It’s also common for women to have a libido that changes quite a lot.

Oloni

I’ll be honest, I find this so odd. Threesomes can be quite complicated, but to then include family? You all messed up seriously there. But this is simple, let you sister know what’s happening and stop engaging in threesomes with them. If you want to be involved in one there are plenty of couples who are always looking for a new third party join in.

Oloni

If you’re in a monogamous relationship, I think it’d be best to just pump your breaks. There’s clearly an issue here and a reason as to why you feel the need to visit sex workers. Be honest and open with yourself and your fiancee. By continuing this relationship, you’re only being selfish and thinking of yourself which is very unfair.

Oloni