Nipple Play

This post may be a little self-indulgent but I want to bring some shine of nipple stimulation. I am one hundred percent an advocate for nipple play and the satisfying heights that nipple pleasure in the foreplay department can give me. In fact at times it has even served as a solitary sexual act that I found completely satisfactory and I was ready to roll over in bliss and smile myself into slumber on that alone (of course he didn’t let me though!).

I am ridiculously sensitive in many areas over my body, and indeed this can be a valuable thing when exploring my sexuality and enjoying my time with my chosen beau (Not so much when I am being ‘tortured’ by ticking, but secretly I like that too), I am aware that this is not the case for every woman. Every woman is different, and some women are simply not sensitive (or in touch with their sensitivity) like that. An absolute rule in this situation is to understand that unless your partner has communicated with you that they enjoy stimulation of their nipples, be it sucked, bitten, twisted, yanked and or even clamped, DO NOT DO IT. As it can lead to awkward or uncomfortable foreplay, and that is never a sexy thing.

For some, the nipples are considered as huge and obvious erogenous zone, that at times are often overlooked by women (when pleasing her guy if he is into that) and at times neglected a little by the men, as some are eager to cut to the chase and dive right in (lazy lovers are a no-no for me!).

If you are lucky enough to be one of those women who are sensitive in the nipple area then I am sure, like me, you can appreciate how wonderful those sensations can feel when triggered, as they run down from your nibs to your loins as if they are additional buttons to your clit.

For us sensitive folk, the nipples can be really sensitive, and as a result over stimulation can have an adverse effect and instead be an uncomfortable addition to the foreplay, which is why it is important that your partner is attune to your preference in how you like them to be sucked and tweaked, some women like gentle, others in between semi pain and pleasure, whilst some love that full on pleasure burn (not me!). Communicating what you like is key , so they don’t get too carried away making your pussy dry instead of the intended wet fest!

When your partner licks and sucks on your aroused nipples its great but how about adding some light pinching, twisting, flicking, rolling between your index finger and thumb so as to elevate the sensations and take your nipple play to new heights!

You can even get your partner to try holding the nipple between their mouth , where they can apply a gentle squeeze of the nipple between the softness of their lips, whilst simultaneously sucking on them inwards and tickling the nib with their tongue for that more sensual sensation, (yes a French kiss to my boobs are always welcome!) Don’t be afraid to be creative whilst remaining aware of your partners pleasure comfortabilities.

Additionally, don’t forget the areolas, which is the surrounding circle of coloured skin at the base of the nipple. This area is also home to a huge amount of pleasure receptors that often goes unnoticed, so don’t be shy to see if incorporating some stimulation here heightens her arousal too.

You can have so much fun working the breasts and nipples, with some women having the additional luxury of experiencing orgasms induced solely by stimulation of this area. Even if she isn’t able to orgasm by that alone, I’m sure it will aid in the orgasms to come from the subsequent sex acts to follow,  having made her already hot and bothered and insanely wet (if you did it right!) by the intense nipple stimulation.

Happy nipple play!