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I actually think I’m a girlfriend fluffer. Every time I see a guy he’s never ready to be in a relationship with me and I still stupidly give him my all while he fucks me over. But then give it a month and then all of a sudden he’s in a serious happy relationship and then would never look at me again. It’s so sad and tiring. How can I break out of that pattern ?
10. May 2015
That must be extremely annoying! I do answer this in my latest eBook: 100 Questions
Is cheeky chats off limits now I’m in a relationship
10. May 2015
Yes.
I’m a Virgin but I know a LOT about sex, I’ve never given or received fellatio, the most I’ve done is kiss a guy and hand on heart I’m being totally honest but people assume I’ve done everything. Is this bad? How should I feel?
10. May 2015
You don’t do anything. That’s their ignorance not yours, a virgin can do her research.
Hey my boyfriend does not call me nor take my calls I spoke to him about it but he claims be does not like talking on the phone but if he is not pillow talking with me who is he pillow talking with? The lack of communication he gives me sometimes makes me feel alone and that I need a side guy to have those sweet conversations with. my brother thinks that he either does not feel me or he is taking me for a side girl. I don’t know what to think or believe.
9. May 2015
You don’t need a side guy dear! You need to think about where this relationship is heading. It’s not great if he doesn’t call his own girlfriend and even terrible if he doesn’t answer your calls. You’re a woman and women LOVE attention. Even if the conversations aren’t 30 minutes long. A quick call a couple times a week to check on you should be enough. I understand why you feel he might have some else occupying his time, but right now you have to ask yourself ‘Do I really want to be with someone who can’t do basic things within a relationship?’
So what he doesn’t like phone calls. If you like them their should be some compromising, you’re not asking for a lot, that’s how relationships WORK!
I had a crush on this guy and he had a crush on me but we never really did anything about it because we’re in the same friendship group although we did flanter (flirt and banter) anywaysss we kissed a friends party. After that, we began dating. He was so sweet and nice and would make the effort to see me all the time. Then we slept with each other twice and he doesn’t message as much or makes the effort to see me anymore. I can’t help but feel like it was just the sex for him now even though he said it wasn’t and that he actually liked me. We haven’t spoken in a while yet technically we are still dating or seeing each other or whatever. Do you think I should call it off or call him up on it and how should I approach it? Thanks Hun
9. May 2015
He could be loosing interest which he is allowed to do, don’t assume it was sex alone he was after. Talk to him again and if he still seems distant go find what your heart would desire elsewhere.
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