How To Bring Some Romance Back into Valentine’s Day
For some, Valentines can be a little nerve wrecking, especially if you feel like you are stuck for ideas on how to bring a romantic spark back into your love life for this special occasion.
Well not to worry, as here at Simply Oloni we have complied a few tips on how to bring a smile to your significant others face this Valentines:
- Prepare psychologically
Women are mental creatures, and to inspire a woman romantically and deeply it is always worth delving into her mind first (This can also be said for the male counterpart, although they wont like to always admit it!) .You can start such a romantic reconnection through little actions throughout the days leading up to Valentines, to show that you are thinking of them, and that they can know your gestures are warming them up to a day dedicated to romance & love. You can do this by sending romantic texts, so as to raise their expectations and encourage that spark of excitement and romance in preparation for the day.
- Surprise your other half
This is where you can get really creative with your romance, be it a surprise weekend away or just a well thought out gift that can capture a moment of nostalgia in your relationship, the surprise element is usually always a winner. It is strongly suggested that you cater the surprise to your partners taste and personality and you are guaranteed a win-win in this regard. The creative possibilities are endless, so try to think outside the box and add a personal touch to your gesture, in this way you are guaranteed to have them swooning by default. Just make sure it is something that you know they will LOVE.
- Have a romantic dinner
This may seem a little predictable, but the effort is usually almost always favorable, as everyone loves a good meal. Whether you decide to have it at home or at your favourite restaurant, what matters is that the atmosphere is romantic and the food is satisfying. Remember the idea is to bring romance back and we all know a romantic dinner is an instant win. Nothing beats a classic romantic dinner; scented candles, intimate lighting, delicious food complimented by soothing music and sealed by a bottle of your favourite wine.
- Conversation
Communication is a powerful tool in bringing the romantic spark back into your Valentines Day. This is a wonderful excuse to reminisce special moments in your relationship thus far, joke around, banter and flirt, recognising your affections for one another and building your bond of intimacy. Don’t be shy to mix in some dirty talk or heavy flirtation if that is more your thing, this is a special night to get into each other on a deeper level and to express emotions you have for one another. Let the conversation flow free leading you into romantic intimacy.
