Does The Size Of His Penis Really Matter?
A bit of banter between my boyfriend and his best friend inspired my quest to investigate the much debated topic on whether the size of a mans penis really matters and how much women actually care about the length of his manhood.
My investigation started to get really technical the more I delved into the debate, as there are so many factors to consider and misconceptions out there. One being , what actually defines a small, medium or large to extra large penis in the first place ? I realised this interpretation can vary from woman to woman and what her vagina is use to, expects, or enjoys, and her own visual perspective on dimensions. I realised our perception of size is distorted in general and a lot of this is contributed by deceptions created by porn that feeds ideas of gargantuan dicks. Knowing just how long for example, 6 inches is through sight alone is not something we can generally point out willy nilly(ahem), not without a tape measure or an object that measures up approximately to that size. Hence, the majority of us have delusions of grandeur and succumb to exaggerated thinking in relation to size. Men (and some women ) feel that they need to aspire to 10 inches and above. After much research I found that these sizes are extremely rare, and do not even exist in porn! 9.5 inches is the biggest size in the industry with no other exceeding that. In actual fact , 5.5-6 inches is pretty average among many ordinary men outside the industry and is definitely nothing to be ashamed of.
I don’t want to get too technical with this post but I found the debate quite fascinating and in some cases it may be inconclusive!I think it would be completely dishonest to suggest that size doesn’t matter at all in what seems like an attempt to alleviate male anxiety and inspire false hope in order to leave their ego intact , but we as women need to feel something. There is no worse feeling then looking up at the ceiling wondering when he is going to slip it inside , only to your horror you realise that he is thrusting and making sex faces, leaving you feeling confused because you feel NOTHING. There is no other short change like it. Rolling over and thinking to yourself can this even be considered as sex? Those are not the kind of after thoughts you want after a steamy session, and is why I believe it is important to find the right dick that suits the needs of your vaginal walls, and I don’t just mean that physically. Us Ladies do not necessarily need the dick to be too big but we definitely do not want it to be a cocktail sausage, nor do we expect the girth to be that of a toothpick. It’s all relative. Having said that , lucky for you guys that one woman’s pencil is another woman’s deodorant spray. I think one thing we can all agree on as women, is that if given the choice between a larger-than-average size with below-average skills versus an average size with above-average skills there will be absolutely no contest. Mind blowing sex skills beat size every time. It’s just as they say, it is not the size of the ship, but the motion of the ocean.
Every penis is different, holding its own set of individual characteristics and there isn’t particularly one that is the same as another. Not only that, but we mustn’t forget that there is a whole lot more to sexual satisfaction. Thankfully, at Simply Oloni we are always here to help encourage you take your sex lives to new heights!
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