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How can I improve sex with my boyfriend ? Recently lost my virginity to him (in January actually) And I want to take things to the next level,!i want to surprise him , I want to make him shiver, I want him to want me even more
1. May 2015
Oooooh gurlll we have some amazing sex blog on the site. Try new positions, try it in different & spontaneous places. Dress up perhaps?
Hiya.. my situation isn’t a relationship it’s a friendship dilemma. I was previously on benefits for few months then was working in a Caribbean restaurant till i got my new amazing job was very depressed and i had a friend we would console each other as we were in the same situation we made a promise this year was going to be out year get better jobs etc whilst i was job hunting she was rooting for me when i got my interview and got my new job she was rooting for me i would always send her links for jobs etc we met up few weeks ago to celebrate her passing her driving lesson and with me getting my new job. A few days after our outing she tried to set me up with a guy whom isn’t my type in the slightly not only based on looks i declined politely and she just responded “okay” since then she stopped contacting me, with my new hectic work I’m either shattered or busy with work and looking after my son and tbh I’m wasn’t going to chase after her. I’ve noticed she’s blocked me on WhatsApp and via calls what does this mean yes i have changed i am happy I’m sorting my problems and i am confident within myself is that a bad thing because I’ve progressed and she hasn’t?
1. May 2015
I feel as if there’s more to this story, she couldn’t have just stopped spesking to you, because of your lack of interest in a guy. It was probably a build up of other emotions as to how she felt towards you.
I would say that some friends are honestly supposed to come and GO! She served her purpose, infacf you both served a purpose in each others lives & now you’re fine and doing well for yourself.
Im torn in between three guys. I’m not used to the dating stuff n now I’ve caught feelings for all three. Ones rich but is arrogant. Ones weird with a baby but I like him the most. And one acts gay. I’m asking u to pick 🙂
1. May 2015
It’s not up to me, that’s your decision to decide. Who would make a better half?
I’ve been speaking to this boy on and off since September and we’ve both told each other we like each other. I can see a future with him but recently our text convos are very short and he seems distant. What do you think is going on?
1. May 2015
He’s either busy or lost interest. Call him ask what’s up.
What would you say the rules are when doing fwb?
1. May 2015
I just tweeted some of them. Check my timeline. Don’t get emotionally invested, pick a guy who isn’t a good friend or even a friend for that matter. Only contact each other when it’s to have sex, when you make it all about sex, that’s all it will be.
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