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My ex and I broke up as he was cheating, I’m trying to get over him but I’m finding it really hard..I’ve tried to move on and started seeing someone else but my ex messaged me saying he wants to meet up&it will probably lead to sex do you think I should go or continue seeing this other guy?
30. April 2015
What I don’t want you to do is start using the new guy as an emotional crutch if you’e thinking about returning to your ex. I don’t think you should go back to him. Guys do not change over night especially if this isn’t the first time he’s cheated, be smart about it!
I was in a bad place in my relationship and I told my friend something in confidence and she told her boyfriend. This happened a few months ago but due to this I am hesitant to tell her things now and she is suppose to be one of my best friends.. Am I over reacting? No one found out to my knowledge but it makes me angry that she told him, it was not her place. What do I do?
30. April 2015
You know what she’s like now, so you become mindful of what you tell her. It’s a shame that you can’t share private information without her running back to tell the bf, but at least now you know.
When is too soon too live with boyfriend
30. April 2015
When he’s your boyfriend I always say wait for marriage.
I’m seeing this guy but I have this gut feeling that he is using me as a rebound (you know that feeling us girls get when you know there is something wrong) anyways there’s no proof that he is but I can tell by his status, posts etc. I want to know but we are still early stages and I don’t want it to look like I’m hurt or anything. What should I do?
30. April 2015
You carry on seeing him, time will tell if your gut is right. Another thing also, SEE other guys too!! You are ALLOWED.
I known this guy a month we have a honest friendship we like each other but are not together he told me he has a friend with benefits, however still talks to her he wants me to be with him but I don’t like him talking to this girl, what do I do I really like him?
30. April 2015
First step is talking to him about how you feel about it. If it’s a FWB then he shouldn’t have no problem with killing that ‘friendship’. That’s the only way to look at it in my opinion.
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