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I don’t know if you’d remember but I asked a question on here a few weeks about about chlamydia and if it will effect my fertility and now I’m pregnant!! Thanks for your reply it made me feel a lot better.
6. January 2017
That’s so great to hear! Congrats dear.
Oloni
hi Oloni, i’ve been seeing the same guy for over a year now, we act like we’re together but he simply says he’s not ready for a relationship! what do i do, move on or wait?
6. January 2017
Get my eBook DEAR OLONI it has lots of advice especially for this type of scenario.
Hi Oloni, I’ve recently got into this relationship with a guy I met a few weeks ago. He’s amazing but there are a few certain views that bothers me (i.e. he has this patriarchal mindset, which I’m clearly against. Also he loves to shout at me for unnecessary stuff like not giving him enough attention or not messaging him however if the tables were turned he would find a way to blame me somehow. Besides that, this guy is really amazing to me, treats me like a princessssss and everything. But yet I fear that this guy is sexually fuatrated
6. January 2017
Lol you need to have a conversation with him dear. He’s not your father and I’m sure you’re grown so no one should be raising their voice at you, it’s disrespectful. As for his opinions, that won’t change. He was like that when you met him, so even if you stop dating him today, he will still have the same mindset. You either accept who he is, or walk away.
Hi, Oloni, I’m 19 yrs old and I’ve been in a romantic relationship with a 35yr old man for a couple of months now (has a girlfriend btw). We really love each other but we haven’t gone as far as into a relationship because I know he’s at the stage in life where he wants marriage and kids. At this point in my life, I cannot give him that, I still need to live my life so we agreed that our relationship would stay the same. He recently told me he plans to propose to his girlfriend (I’ve met her and she is really nice) and I’ve even tried on their engagement ring and everything. As much as I want him to be happy, I feel bad that his gf is getting married to a man that is not faithful to her. Should I tell her the truth or keep quiet and let them live?
6. January 2017
You need to piss off. So you tried on her ring and suddenly your moral compass is interested in the loyalty of her man? Don’t abuse my service.
Oloni
My boyfriend on 7 months asked me to help him write an email so I did, I went back on my laptop a week or so later and he was still logged in the email as I’d just left my laptop when I wrote it. He had emails from a website how to meet “trannys” (or woman that are men still with their penis). My boyfriend is a very manly man and I don’t even feel asking him about this is an option as I do not want to hurt his pride and I know it would. Is my man gay? I don’t understand, is it a common thing for a straight man to be interested in these women/men… leaving out the fact he may have/going to cheat as he has signed up to this site (which I know is him as it was his name etc used so wasn’t for a friend). Like I say my man has always been the ladies man, dog kind of guy so this was a real shock I can’t understand. Thanks
6. January 2017
I don’t care how manly he is, that’s your boyfriend you’re ALLOWED to communicate with him. Ask him about what you saw and have a conversation about it.
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