The Sting
The Borrower
‘Do you think it’s a problem if your boyfriend keeps on borrowing money from you?’
-Anonymous
Yes, it is. He should have a bit of shame. You’re his girlfriend, not his sugar mama.
Meet The Parent(s)
‘Hey. I’m kinda scared of introducing my bf to my dad. He’s already met my mum but I know the introductions with my dad has to happen sometime. I cant keep putting it off. Any advice on how I should go about it?’
I’m guessing your father is strict. Talk to your dad first a few times and let him know how much your boyfriend means to you. Sit him down properly and tell him a few things about your boyfriend so when they do finally meet everything will go pleasantly.
The Sting
‘Recently I travelled for a week and had some form of sex with 5 different boys, 4 of those unprotected. I kinda like one of them, we were togetherish then broke apart and recently reignited our friendship (if you could call it that). I have now come home and been greeted by a violent sting. Although I fear the worst, I also fear telling my partner(s) they may need to get tested. How do I go about this, trying to avoid the whole “you’re a dirty girl” view of me?’
-Anonymous
You need to go to a clinic ASAP. If you do, give the nurses the phone number of the guys you were sexually involved with who can let them know (in case you do have anything) anonymously.
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