Where To Meet Mr Right
Most of the questions that are sent to me via Ask Oloni are usually to do with a woman who has never had a boyfriend or dated. The girl who has grown up and seen her friends fall in and out of relationships with different guys. He’s been the casanova, the guy she talks to when she’s bored who pays her the sweetest compliments or even the asshole she always returns to.
It’s annoying, you’re probably wondering, when will it be my turn? Is there something wrong with me. Should I continue to pray…. and fast? This blog isn’t to go on about how the perfect guy might just be under your nose. but to give you healthy tips on where to meet him.
The truth is you’re probably not putting yourself out there enough, you’re too busy double tapping photos of other couples, you’re not investing any time into your own love life.
I’m currently the relationship coach to a young lady and give her tasks to fill out weekly to get her into the habit of meeting new men. The problem is a lot of women think they’re doing their part to find Mr Right, when in reality it’s the bare minimum.
The Gym
I remember when I was flyering for Simply Oloni’s last event, I had to ask myself where I could find men to attend. I decided to stand outside the gym and flyer…. and my goodness??! The gym on Mondays at 7pm is where a lot of these men are. And not any type of guy, a guy who enjoys keeping fit and healthy. (The guys you can drool over) If you go often enough you’re able to become friends with local gym members too.
Simply Oloni’s Mingling Soiree
Our next Mingling Soiree is taking place July 11th. A singles night where you can get to know different guys who are there because they’re obviously single. This and other single nights gives you the opportunity to mix with men who are looking for commitment. Get a ticket HERE
Dating Apps
POF/Tinder/Love Flutter/ Hitch/Meet Up – I know plenty of women and men who have met their partners on these dating apps. If you honestly take 30 minutes out of your day a few times a week, you should notice your love life becoming more interesting. I know some people still find it odd to find a date online, but many of us are digital natives so really, it’s the furthest thing from odd. Create an account and have another friend of yours who is also single do so and swipe together.
There are still several other ways to meet great different men, the ones mentioned are just a couple. However, remember to be in the vicinity of different men is one thing, but how to attract them is another. Hmm.. perhaps I’ll write about that in my next post.
