How To Embrace Being Newly Single During Cuffing Season

Cuffing Season: A season (always around autumn or winter) where people are usually looking to be ‘cuffed’ in a monogamous or serious relationship.

In the world of singledom, you’re probably trying to fight off f**k boys and also fight people who want to ‘hook’ you up every two weeks with their mate, who they deem might be GREAT for you. Even though being newly single may have it’s ups and down, and your facebook and twitter feed is filled with couples getting engaged or married, it’s honestly not that bad… Sometimes you might catch yourself feeling ‘lonely’ or thinking that having a boyfriend would be nice again.

Change your mentality 

In the (not exact) words of Oloni, ‘your status is dating not single’. It’s tempting to get caught up in the world of singledom, especially if you want to get out of it. Change your mindset; you’re only single if you choose to be. Get out there and seek for potential partners. If you want to date for the sake of dating’s sake, then go ahead. I’m not judging you. But for those of you, who would love to be in a relationship, get out there and start dating. It’s 2016, anyone can make the first move, so give it a shot.

Cuff yourself 

You’re probably tired of hearing that being single is supposed to be fun, or that you should enjoy the new party. But it’s true! Embracing your new status means that you get to explore and do activities that you wouldn’t normally do. Also, take your time to think about what you want and what you need, whilst you’re dating. Arrange your own activities, take you and your mates out, or spend time by yourself. Some days will be better than others, but remember that everyone shows the best versions of their lives and relationships.

Let go of the past

Depending on who you are, you might have fond or not so fond memories of your exes, however, you have to remember that it’s in the past. Forgiving ex’s that may have hurt you is a tough one. However, in order to progress within your life, it’s important to let it go, and take time to focus on yourself.