6 Tips To Give Him The Best Blow Job
I remember a night when I was still at university and a few of my girlfriends and I decided to watch porn. We were talking about our sexual experiences and started swapping stories about men in bed. We also wanted to discuss what it meant to perform great oral sex on a guy.
That same evening we typed “Lacey Duvalle” in the search box of Xvideos and there it was, an adult actress sucking the life and soul out of this male porn stars penis. She didn’t hold back and literally had us all mentally taking notes.
She didn’t take a single break or breath from sucking, she kept his penis wet and made eye contact the whole entire time.
After we finished watching Lacey in all her glory, we decided to share tips of our own with each other. I still remember the laughter in the room when one of the girls said, “Remember, spitting is quitting”- She was referring to a mans ejaculation once he comes.
Now although porn shouldn’t be your first go to when figuring out how to give him that jaw dropping blow job, it can actually help, just don’t expect to be like Lacey. Lacey is a professional and porn is not reality.
I remember the first time I performed oral sex on a guy, I was 18 and we had been in a relationship for a while. The first time I did it I was so sure of myself. I was confident and really felt like I knew what the hell I was doing, this was until I kept hearing him say ‘ow’ – Then I became absolutely mortified, but with practice you DO get a lot better.
I’m going to uncover 6 tips ensure you give him one of the best blow jobs he has ever received.
Take charge
For a lot of couples or sexual partners being in control can be a very huge turn on, especially when you’re about to stick his penis in your mouth. You have power over his pleasure, which can be incredibly empowering for a woman. Remember this when you unzip his trousers.
Just the tip
See it as foreplay on his erogenous zone before getting straight into full action. Softly kiss and lick just the tip to keep him excited for what’s to come. Something to keep in mind is not to worry if he isn’t rock hard, according to Amy Marsh a sexologist who says ‘it’s normal for his erection to ebb and flow during oral sex’.
Hand job
You can use one or both, just make sure you’re thrusting your head back and forth on his penis as you do so holding on to it firmly.This is very practical, especially if your sexual partners has been heavily blessed down below. Try adding enough saliva to the party and lubricant at this point, a great choice would be a edible lube which can be bought from several adult pleasure stores.
Be playful
Pay attention to his balls and only go as deep and far with his penis as you can. Do not be too repetitive with your head motions and try adding flavoured lube to the mix or perhaps play with the temperature. Have a jar full or ice cubes in the room and stick some in your mouth for a good 15 seconds, take them out and resume to giving him that ultimate pleasure.
Whisper something dirty between breaks
Turn him on even more by whispering something nasty for a few seconds. It can be soft or hardcore dirty just make sure it’s really hot.
Keep sucking .. even after he comes.
That’s right, it isn’t over just yet. Even after he ejaculates a really big blow job tip is to carry on sucking for a good few seconds. This usually heightens the sexual pleasure he feels at that moment and will probably leave him wanting more. Oh and hopefully he tastes good enough to swallow.
