6 Masturbating Tips For Women

A couple weeks ago it was the end National Masturbation Month and an excuse for many to stock up on brand new sex toys. (What’s better than a new vibrator anyway?) – I enjoy talking about masturbation and self pleasure, especially because I don’t think any other person will know how we, as women like to be touched better than ourselves.

I started masturbating in my mid teens so I always had an understanding of what real sexual pleasure felt like, even if I wasn’t sexual with boys. I knew what I liked and what would make me climax due to practice.

I think it’s so important for women to understand their own sexuality. What do you enjoy? Where is your gspot? Can you cum back to back? It’s vital for those who are sexually active to explore and understand their own body before expecting anyone else to. If you haven’t masturbated before or are unsure of how to do so comfortably, below are my 6 tips.

1) Lay on your back and shut your eyes – Relax and take a deep breath. Make sure your door is locked and you’re in the comfort of your very own space. Perhaps, play some music to drown out any other noise that might come from you… you’ll be surprised.

2) Play with different parts of your body such as your erogenous zones – See this as foreplay with yourself. You’re going to gently explore the sensitive areas of your body to help turn yourself on even more. This could include your breasts or just between your thighs, whatever it is, play with it softly.

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3) Think dirty – Do you remember those Teedra Moses lyrics, where she says ‘Sometimes I even touch myself. Imagining your pleasure baby.’ on the song ‘Be Your Girl’ ? – Well what did you think she was doing? Yeah, she was certainly about to pull out her vibrator. Lol. Seriously though, dirty thoughts certainly helps you move to the first and second stages of the sexual response cycle, called ‘Excitement’ and ‘Plateau’. This means that your body changes sexually e.g. vaginal lubrication increases and nipples get harder.

Make your thoughts as nasty and as dirty as possible to help get you off and if that doesn’t work, Xvideos is always a click away.

4) Do you enjoy clitoral stimulation or vaginal penetration? – When playing with parts of your body and thinking dirty, try to discover what your body responds to most and enjoys more. Use whatever hand you like and any of your fingers, preferably two (index and middle) to massage your clitoris area, then dip back and forth softly at the entrance of your vagina. Do this for as long as possible till you get even more turned on and the feeling becomes more intense. Also use the available hand to rub other areas of your body.

5) Sex toys – Mini sex toys are ideal for masturbating and for many it can be an even better replacement for fingers. This is due to how powerful the vibrations of the toy can be, which enhances the sexual pleasure. Try our new sex toy Vesta by HERGASM.

6) To complete the sexual response cycle, you must ORGASM – If you follow my last 5 tips I’m almost 100%  sure that you will reach your climax stage. There isn’t a set time for how long you have to do each step for, so don’t clock watch. Just explore and enjoy your body and carry on doing so till you feel an intense sexually satisfying explosion.

After you experience an orgasm whilst masturbating, your body will slowly return to its normal state, sexperts call this ‘Resolution’, you will no longer feel all hot and bothered but left satisfied.

What are your tips for masturbating? Tweet me over @Oloni

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