5 Tips For Having The Best Phone Sex Ever

I’ve spoken to a lot of my friends both women and men in the past only to find out they’re not entirely sure how to confidently have phone sex, ‘What do I say?’ ‘Isn’t that weird?’ – No, it really isn’t. Talking about your sexual fantasies with a love or sex interest over the phone or even via text should feel exhilarating, especially when masturbating. Below I’ve shared 5 tips to help boost your next phone sex experience. Check them out below!

1) Test the waters. Phone sex isn’t something you dive straight into, unless you have that relationship where the both of you know exactly what time it is. However, if you’re new to it or want to make it a bit more adventurous, you can start off by sending a naughty text, a nude/vude on snapchat (That’s a video nude). If you receive an enthusiastic response, you know that this can definitely become a subject of conversation to talk about to get the ball rolling.

2) The ‘I wish you were here’ line. It works every time, if I do say so myself. After showing a sexual interest in your partner, be prepared to use this sentence to also test the waters for some late night phone sex. Usually what comes next is a reply that sounds something like ‘Why do you wish I was there?’ or ‘If was with you right now, what would happen?’. I’m already getting flustered as I type! Think of this intimate moment as the beginning of foreplay.

3) Foreplay Phonesex. The foreplay during phone sex is probably one of the most important parts, no different to the real action. You have to keep it light, be descriptive and not say too much allowing your partner to use their imagination over the phone.

‘I’m getting very turned on, thinking about you gently rubbing between my thighs’

‘Do you like when I touch myself here?’

These are both great examples of foreplay phone sex.

4) The real dirty talk. On the sexual response cycle this where the plateau stage occurs, just before either one of you reach an orgasm. This is your chance to really get into things and share what you’d love to do or have done to you. Check out some examples below and remember, it’s how you say it that makes it important.

‘I’m so wet right now and want you to…’

‘I want every inch of that…’

I could spend hours just sucking on your..’

5) Dig deeper. Different ways of digging deeper include getting more graphical photos from your partner during the phone sex action. So asking him to send a live dick picture or him requesting to see a photo of your boobs or vagina, this all helps reach the stage of your orgasm.

Important note: Only exchange private photos with someone you trust and always remember to leave your face out. (No face, no case)

Have you ever tried having phone sex? How did it go? Why not use these tips tonight, with a special someone! Tweet us over at @SimplyOloni or @Oloni