3 Reasons Why You Will Stay Single
There’s no secret that we as women, sometimes envision the perfect man of our dreams and have boxes that we want ticked before we even consider dating him.
Being single is great and many of us are single out of choice as it allows you to learn more about yourself and be a better person. However you never want to be single for too long. So DATE MORE! Experience in dating prepares you for being in a relationship. We’ve all heard of the many ideologies when comparing dating to fishing! You have to continue slinging that hook till you catch something worth holding on to.
From speaking to a lot of women I realised that some have absolutely no clue on what’s it’s like to experience the company of a man over a nice dinner. Stop falling for the ‘Come around so we can “chill“‘ lines!
Simply Oloni have compiled a list of reasons as to why you’re probably going to stay still single, especially if you THINK you’re trying.
1. Same Faces
So many of us are content with the same faces we see everyday, that we can’t be bothered to move out of our comfort zone and meet new people. When you go to the same places and meet the same people, you’re not giving yourself the chance to find new people of interest.
2. The Ex
Not letting go of your ex can be a huge reason as to why you will remain single. By messing with the past, you’re playing with what the future
Simply Oloni’s Mingling Soirée
3. Choosey & Setting Unrealistic Expectations
Now we’re not saying that you should consider Uncle Fester from the Addams family. Yes, attraction can be a big deal, but very often we shut men down based on the little things.
‘His nose is far too big’
‘His head is shaped like a 50p coin’
…. Okay so maybe not that.
As mentioned before we all have boxes we want ticked and have our own personal standards which is completely fine and a must. But when you’re expectations become ridiculous it’s no surprise as to why you could end up as..
You want a guy who has a great body and hits the gym, but you haven’t seen a treadmill in donkeys. Try to be the reflection of what you wish to attract. It’s no good listing things you’re not even close being.
What happened to the good ol days of just asking for a guy who simply makes you laugh? (Of course there has to be more than that, laughter does not pay bills)
