Anal Etiquette
People spend a lot of time bashing anal sex and talking about how wrong it is and how disgusting it is, but for every one person who finds it disgusting, there are two people who are intrigued by it. Like me, I find the act of anal sex interesting, mostly because I have seen my share of man parts and the ones that I am pretty sure could bruise up a girl’s insides are usually the ones who like anal sex and have done it with quite a few females. I am curious so I wanted to know exactly what the pleasure in it was and also more importantly what the dos and don’ts were, and completely understand exactly how something so painful could be pleasurable. And I thought to share my findings, as I know there is somebody just as curious as me with no clue how to go about it.
These are the golden rules of anal sex
Never Double Dip – Be it from your pussy to your ass or ass to pussy or even ass to mouth, its all a huge no, no. You’re simply moving bacteria back and forth from place to place and this leads to infections that are obviously not pleasant. If using a condom, change it as he moves from one orifice to the next.
Lube – Have plenty, not oil, or Vaseline, but actual lube. Great sex shops have ones made entirely for anal sex. Lube is an essential part of anal sex. Try not to use your vagina juices or saliva especially if you are only just starting out.
Toys – If you are as terrified by the sheer size of some penises as I am, try buying an anal toy, there are quite a few great ones, anal beads were the most recommended as they allow you to work your way up in size.
Condoms – To have anal sex, you must be aware that yes things do happen, take a wash first obviously and unless you eat a funny take-away right before, you should be fine. But condoms are recommended as there are bacteria’s in the anus that could cause infections in the penis. My go to condom brand for every kind of sex is the Skyn brand, they are soft and feel exactly like skin to skin contact.
Be as comfortable as you can, have vaginal sex first, involve lots of foreplay. Make sure you are as relaxed as possible as the muscles in the anus are made to push things out not take them in so relaxing will make it hurt a lot less.
Hygiene – take a shower, it really is that simple. People watch porn and assume things are like that. They get to douche and clean out their colons and all that, but that is because it is their career. For us simple humans, its just a really good shower.
Try it, it does get pleasurable according to many, especially if you do it with somebody who is well versed in the act, or simply by playing with yourself you will find your pleasure points, your limits and get to know how exactly you like it. Like vaginal sex, the better he is at it, the more pleasure you get and the more relaxed you are the more pleasurable.
It is to be noted however that not every woman gets pleasure from anal sex, if you try it and it is not for you, don’t feel weird, that happens sometimes, just go on and have great vaginal sex instead.
