Ella December on Emotional Abuse – The Scars You Don’t See
He lied to me, he cheated and he always treated me badly. Somehow he always made me feel like it was my fault. He had this ability to turn my anger at his wrongdoings into my disappointment within myself. I remember
Why Love And Hip Hop Is Bad For Relationships
Love and Hip Hop is supposed to be a reality TV show that shares what happens behind the scenes in the music industry. We’re shown what goes on between artists in the studio and within their private lives. To many
How To Handle New Relationships
It had never really occurred to me how major the step between liking somebody and taking that leap from 'friendship' to relationship really is. I actually feel like I have stepped into a VIP area of coupledom that I had
13 Sex Etiquette Rules Women Shouldn’t Have To Remind You About
Last night I decided to ask Twitter what they thought should be seen as a sexual etiquette before, during and after sex. I had mixed answers, but got a bigger response from the guys. I’m assuming some of the women
Does The Size Of His Penis Really Matter?
A bit of banter between my boyfriend and his best friend inspired my quest to investigate the much debated topic on whether the size of a mans penis really matters and how much women actually care about the length of
Don’t Be The Bag Lady
Relationships come and go often, especially for those of us in our twenties. See, we're at an age where we are attempting to figure out what works and doesn't work according to our standards. We are trying to figure out
Why We Don’t Want To Be The Hook-Up Culture Any More
The hook up culture primarily involves those who enjoy the sex with no strings attached lifestyle. It focuses solely on the physical without getting emotionally tied up with the person you’re experiencing sexual pleasure with. It's tiring, we've finally decided that
Simply Oloni’s Mingling Soirée
It's back again! Yes, Simply Oloni will be hosting our second Mingling Soirée Saturday, July 11th. A fun night aimed at singles from 21-28 who are looking to meet someone new. In our favourite bar, we aim to fill the
#AskOloni My Boyfriend And My Natural Hair
Me, Him, Her and Her. 'Hi Oloni, I’ve been in an on and off relationship with this guy for about 4 years now. We now have a baby together. However he has other children with other women. We try and stay