The Serial Dating Mini Manual
Since the beginning of the year, the dating scene and I have become very good friends. I have always been the kind of girl that couldn't stand wasn’t particularly fond of the idea of being single, which for a long time
Ella December on Emotional Abuse – The Scars You Don’t See
He lied to me, he cheated and he always treated me badly. Somehow he always made me feel like it was my fault. He had this ability to turn my anger at his wrongdoings into my disappointment within myself. I remember
Why Love And Hip Hop Is Bad For Relationships
Love and Hip Hop is supposed to be a reality TV show that shares what happens behind the scenes in the music industry. We’re shown what goes on between artists in the studio and within their private lives. To many
Does The Size Of His Penis Really Matter?
A bit of banter between my boyfriend and his best friend inspired my quest to investigate the much debated topic on whether the size of a mans penis really matters and how much women actually care about the length of
Why We Don’t Want To Be The Hook-Up Culture Any More
The hook up culture primarily involves those who enjoy the sex with no strings attached lifestyle. It focuses solely on the physical without getting emotionally tied up with the person you’re experiencing sexual pleasure with. It's tiring, we've finally decided that
6 Habits For A Healthy Relationship
I do not know about you, but it has now become my sole intention to avoid a relationship plagued with toxicity, heartache and consistent tears on my pillow. Whilst conflict is a natural part of every relationship and I am not
Where To Meet Mr Right
Most of the questions that are sent to me via Ask Oloni are usually to do with a woman who has never had a boyfriend or dated. The girl who has grown up and seen her friends fall in and
Rock, Paper, Boyfriend
We’ve all heard of the phrase ‘Chicks before d*cks’ but why does this rule never work? Nor hold any value? I’ll tell you why, because sometimes/most times it’s not actually true. How many times can you say you’ve had a
The Wife Me Phase
I’ve been meaning to write this blog for such a long time only because I feel like so many young women go through a phase when wanting a boyfriend. The ‘Wife Me’ phase. The phase of changing themselves to fit