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‘I found out a couple of days ago I am 6 weeks pregnant for my bf of almost 2 years. He made me abort one last year just after a miscarriage from my previous relationship, this baby was planned and we were buzzing about it, now that I’m pregnant he’s got cold feet and is telling me to abort this one too’
– Anonymous
I really think YOU need to do what’s best for you and also think about your options very carefully. See a doctor who can refer you to a councillor and can guide you properly. Talk to your boyfriend and explain why you need his support through this time. Getting cold feet is normal but doesn’t mean you can’t think and talk about it more. I’m sorry to hear about what you’ve been through and I wish you the best.
Religion & Relationships
‘My boyfriend is a Muslim, our families get on and his family do not care about me not being one but all of a sudden he’s putting a condition on us getting married.. that I become a Muslim. 4 years together and religion never came up!’
– Anonymous
Woahh. He’s changing the rules, that’s not allowed. Even though his parents didn’t care it could still be pressure from them. It’s very wrong that he is bringing this up as an issue years later. Honestly, it all depends on you. If he’s adamant on his decision and his faith it’s entirely up to you to walk with him in it, or walk away.
Colours Never Lie
‘I’ve been seeing this guy for about 5 months and it’s been good but recently I feel like I’ve seen a change. We argue for silly reason, he says things like he doesn’t trust or care about people and I’m not sure if something has changed him or if is his true colours showing….’
– Anonymous
True colours, run. 5 months is enough to know if that should or shouldn’t turn into a relationship.
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