Me, You and Her
The Come Back
‘My boyfriend left me for someone disrespectfully in June then asked me to take him back which I did. We started dating as we were in a long distant relationship. He left me for someone last month again. I’m in love with him but I can’t do this anymore. Thoughts?’
– Anonymous
He’s doing what he knows he can get away with. Love is good, but he is abusing your love!! Please don’t take him back he’ll do it again.
The Non-romantic
‘My boyfriend and I have recently just become a couple, but he never takes me out on dates even on a day like Valentine’s he didn’t want to do anything and didn’t even get me roses/card. I’m so used to being spoilt from past relationships and I know I shouldn’t settle for less. What should I do?’
– Anonymous
Tell him how you’d like to be treated. Talk to him about it and see if you notice changes. He might even make it up to you. If nothing changes, then don’t settle.
The Diary of a Virgin
‘I lost my virginity to this guy(quite drunk). Became very close to him within a few months. He’s 7 years older than me. Since we slept together he has changed like we hardly talk or see each other. Don’t know how to deal with this. It’s making me angry. Any advice? Thanks’
– Anonymous
Sadly that’s the norm for guys who just lose interest in someone they’re dating/seeing/sleeping with. Don’t get worked up, you’ll meet someone else. So many of us go through this!! Get yourself out there and get to know a new person.
Me, You & Her
‘I found out myself that my boyfriend has been unfaithful (right after a lovely valentines day together) he said he didn’t physically cheat but was flirting and being sent sexual pictures from another girl, I’m currently giving him the silent treatment but all I want to do is talk to him. What should I do?’
– Anonymous
The silent treatment should be done as a way for YOU to think about how you feel and want to do. Don’t do it if you’re not thinking about it properly. He fucked up big time. And you have every reason to be annoyed & disheartened. When you’ve had some time…talk to him about how you feel & LISTEN to what he says. Your decision will come from that
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