6 Signs That He Might Just Be into You

The dating game is not easy, and carefully assessing each candidate as a potential life partner is just as tricky, but nothing is harder than deciphering whether he is genuinely interested in you, or if it is a ship that might just have to sail.

1.He is transparent and honest about what he wants.

 I cannot emphasise how important this is. When a man is being open and honest with you about who he is and what he wants out of his interaction with you, it is highly refreshing. When somebody is serious about you, they are less likely to be evasive or vague about key information that you inquire from them. He is most likely to give you straight, honest answers about his family, friends, work and past relationships, not leaving you with questionable gaps and a niggling feeling in your tummy that something isn’t quite right…

2.He makes time for you

 As young adults, everyone seems to be ten times busier these days, and it’s not always easy to keep tabs on everyone whilst balancing life at the same time. Yet, when he is genuinely excited about having something new with you, he will make time for you, be it through meeting for dates or just checking in on you in the day and replying to your messages. If he is interested he WILL make time.

3,He is interested in knowing that bit more

We are all too familiar with that cringey nature of conversation that never seems to get any further then ‘how are you?’ and ‘what are you up to?’ where you just feel like you constantly heading into a conversational brick wall time and time again. Yet if he is really inquisitive about all aspects of you, taking your conversations beyond a superficial level, you might just be on to something. When you don’t have to crave the exchange between you to go beyond small talk, you have yourself a man that is genuinely showing signs of taking an interest in you. So be assured that he’s quite taken to you.

4.He listens to you and respects your opinion

Straight up, a man who is interested and serious about you is serious about your thoughts and opinions. He will surprise you with just how much he was listening when he recalls something almost insignificant from a backlog of conversations you had, and you will think ‘wow he really was listening to little ol’ me’, resulting in your panties moistening a little from excitement and you grinning secretly from ear to ear.

5.He is cool with you around his friends

Basically, if he is relaxed and easy going in relating to you, introducing you to his friends and having you interact with his friends, it would usually suggest a level of comfort and possibly a sign that he sees this going somewhere at least for a while. A man who wants to parade you (respectfully) around his peers is usually a good sign, especially if they tell you that they have ‘heard good things about you’ and that he ‘talks about you all the time’ before having even met you it indicates a level of potential longevity and deeper interest.

 6.He is considerate and patient about how you see the relationship progressing

A man who is genuinely interested in you will take his time during the process of getting to know you. He wouldn’t pressure you in ways that would make you feel uncomfortable and he would be open to progressing the relationship at a pace that would suit your growing interaction. He will be sincere and understanding of your needs and his transparency would allow for you to see that he is genuine in his actions towards you and where the relationship is going.

Remember ladies, the above ideas are of course a two-way street: these same six signs may just tell him how much you may be into him too!