5 Different Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life
- Role Play – Role playing is always fun. From doctors and nurses to playing a victim who needs rescuing by her fireman. It’s a turn on to see your partner in uniform for starters! And it’s thrilling to try to stay in character as sexual tension builds up. Really exciting, and always something to look forward to.
- Foreplay galore – Sometimes we think it’s all about the intercourse when it isn’t. Both of your bodies should be thoroughly explored from time to time. This can also be the time you find out what each other likes. If you both manage to orgasm while foreplaying, this can also make intercourse more long-lasting, and encourage you to orgasm even more!
- Senses – Blindfolds, icecubes, you name it, can all add a bit of spice in the bedroom. As we all know, when one sense is hindered the others come alive. This is where the blindfold comes in – preferably combined with the icecubes. Blindfold your partner while you trace the icecube all over their bodies, and then mix it up with the warmth of your tongue. Focus on erogenous areas such as the nipples and this will drive them crazy.
- Toys – Sex toys are not only for women and there are some that you can both equally enjoy. Adult toys such as the magic wand- vibrate but are not dildos. This can be used as extra stimulus during oral sex, or can even just be used while massaging during foreplay. If up for it, a man can also use a dildo on his partner. It will never replace them and is just another way of getting your partner off.
- Mix it up – once you get into the same old routines, it becomes the same old positions and the same old locations. If you’re not able to have sex on the stairs then there are always alternatives. Different sexual positions can be chosen even out of a hat, but just don’t let your favourite position become your only position. Don’t always plan to have sex on a Friday or Saturday night. Spontaneity is important in any relationship, whether you’re official or not. The less predictable you are to your partner, the more you will excite them and turn them on.
