3 Reasons WHY You Should Have A Friend With Benefits

Since the 1970’s women have slowly shown that being able to have sex with no emotional involvement or wanting anything more is possible. Now this article is not for women, who DO have feelings for a guy they’re dating and are wondering whether they should or shouldn’t have sex with them, with no strings attached. Na uh, this isn’t for you. In fact it’s too late because you have already crossed the line, you don’t cross.The one where emotions are not to be involved for this type of sexual recreation. No, instead this is for women who are comfortable with their sexuality, have had a dry spell in their sex life and aren’t exactly sure on what to do about it.

1. Leave that ex alone. A high percentage of women are presently sleeping with an ex, because they feel they have a deep and romantic connection. Others quite simply don’t want the number of partners they have had sex with to rise. Having a friend with benefits allows you to detach yourself from someone you have broken up with. Some people assume that just because you’re no longer in a relationship, the thing you enjoy most, (yes, sex) must stop. False!

2. Try something different. This is a great way to try new things in the bedroom, especially if you’re comfortable with the person. You don’t have to worry about how you’ll look as the only thing you’re meant to be doing is looking for a new way to achieve an orgasm. A lot of woman hold back in the bedroom, out of fear of how they’ll be seen, by a romantic partner. You’d be surprised at the number of women, who don’t fulfill all their sexual fantasies.

‘Will I look like a slut if he knows I enjoy swallowing?’

3. You’re not exclusive. Having a friend with benefits also means that in no way shape or form are either of you exclusive to each other. He is allowed to do as he pleases as so you. This essentially means, that you can date and entertain whoever you like, you belong to no one but yourself and having casual sex from time to time should not stop you, or him. This is where some women and men get confused, when it’s quite simple. You are not dating, just fucking, only fucking.

Enjoy your sex life more by practicing safe sex and making sure the person you’re sleeping with is healthy.