The Personal Trainer
Age Aint Nothin’ But A …?
‘I just turned 21 and I’m being pursued by a guy who’s 35, he’s asked me out three times over the past year and I finally agreed to go on a date with him. He was a gentleman and the night fun (no sex involved). But I’m insecure about dating so how do I know if he just wants sex from me although he’s said otherwise?’
-Anonymous
My dear, you’re just going to have to take that risk. It’s no different from dating a guy you’re own age. Men in general are always going to be after sex, time will tell if it’s just more.
Sex, Sex, Sex
‘Hey, I’m a girl but ever since I left my bf in Jan, I’ve just been having sex with guys then moving on to a new guy. I’m scared that I’m starting to not appreciate sex. I want to stop, but I don’t know how to.’
-Anonymous
You could be going through a phase many women and men go through after a break up. Just make sure you’re comfortable and it’s consensual. If you still feel like you might not be appreciating sex, it’s okay to stop for a while to figure out why you feel this way.
The Personal Trainer
‘I’m currently trying to rebuild trust with my boyfriend as he fucked up not too long ago. I just found out he met a girl at the gym he goes to, they train together and he has her number. I am NOT ok with this and I would like him to cut her off, am I being fair?’
-Anonymous
A little. They train together & are probably just friends. If he fucked up not too long ago that’s a total different argument and you haven’t mentioned it. You CAN express being uncomfortable about it.
Return Of The Sex
‘Am I wrong for not wanting my boyfriend to be in contact with a female friend who he’s slept with around six months before we got together. It just bothers me. I don’t mind female friends but because they have been intimate I feel weird every time he say he’s spoken to her or she messaged him etc’
-Anonymous
I can see why you’re bothered by it. It makes you uncomfortable the fact that he’s still speaking to a girl he was physical with a few months ago. It gets to you & if their friendship isn’t that important it holds no value.
Have a conversation with him. Speak your mind, if he doesn’t understand then you both have different morals. They may not be bad morals, but just not the same.
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