The Break Ups

Prude or Comfortable?

‘I’ve dated a few guys, and it seems to end for the same reasons; lack of intimacy. I always feel it’s to soon for me to just jump into bed with them, but it seems they think I don’t like them because I haven’t had sex with them. Am I just being a prude? What are your views?’

-Anonymous

You’re not being prude, you sleep with someone who you’re comfortable with. Simple. Also, it may sound cliché but the right guy will wait.

The Non-commitment Type

‘I always seem to end up with men who don’t want commitment. Is the problem me, or just the kind of men I go for?’

-Anonymous

That’s just the typical story for a lot of men these days, however I do think you should try going for a different type of guy if you feel you attract similar ones.

8 Months.

‘I’ve been in a relationship 8 months, my boyfriend has broken up with me twice and said he didn’t mean it. The second time I said we need time apart but I don’t know if it’s the right thing to do. He’s always accusing me of things and doesn’t take ownership of the wrong he does, but bad mouths me to his cousins. Confused?’

-Anonymous

This is too much drama for 8 months. There’s nothing to be confused about, you have red flags left right and centre. Move on.

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