5 Tips For Having The Best Phone Sex Ever

I’ve spoken to a lot of my friends both women and men in the past only to find out they’re not entirely sure how to confidently have phone sex, ‘What do I say?’ ‘Isn’t that weird?’ – No, it really isn’t. Talking about your sexual fantasies with a love or …

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Dating A Guy Who Can’t Dress – He Has To Match My Fly!

Could I date a man who didn’t know how to dress? Well I have. Will I ever? Probably. Do I want to? NO. With that said, although style is hardly the sole characteristic to catch my eye (sense of humour and intellect are non-negotiable) I have admittedly dated a fair …

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13 Crazy Places You Need To Have Sex Before You Turn 30

Let’s face it we all have places we’d love to have sex to possibly tick off our bucket list.. I know I have. It could be for the thrill, the excitement or just a great story to tell an absolute stranger when you’re older. So for that reason I’ve decided …

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Q&A: Maya Jama x Simply Oloni

“I feel like a lot of women are definitely more confident with their sexuality today, than they have ever been.” Maya Jama is a perfect example of what it means to be a daring go-getter. The modelesque 22-year-old TV presenter left her hometown in Bristol at age 16 and moved …

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15 Signs He Doesn’t Like You Through Texting

It’s so hard to read men sometimes, so hard that you can never quite tell if they’re actually interested and just busy, or perhaps like you as only a friend. Texting isn’t the greatest way to communicate, but it is nice to know that the lad who likes you is …

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How To Survive A Pity Date

‘Oloni, isn’t this a blog where you’re supposed to give advice and not encourage women to go out on pity dates?’ – Well no, lol giving advice is just one of the features on this blog. Simply Oloni is an online platform for sex and relationships, so we talk about …

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11 Questions To Ask The Side Chick Your Boyfriend Cheated On You With

A blog post about calling the side woman? Yes. Why? Because let’s face it, it happens and although I don’t always encourage this move sometimes the action has to be made, because if he’s cheating on you, he’s probably lying and not going to be 100% truthful when he gets …

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5 Women Who Confess To Why They Cheated

For the past couple of months I’ve been visiting universities and hosting sex and relationship debates. The first question I always start off with as a quick ice breaker is, ‘Who cheats more, men or women?’. You’ll always get the couple of people who will yell from the top of …

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How Do You Know When You’ve Found The One?

So many people I know began this year with the words: ‘It’s time for me to settle down.’ Men and women who have grown tired of dating life, ready to find the one. But is it really that easy? Do you just say you’re ready and your dream partner comes …

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What It’s Really Like As A Phone Sex Operator

Mia* a 23-year-old university graduate from Tottenham speaks to me about being a phone sex operator when she was 18. ‘No caller was ever the same. You’d get men who wanted to get their load off and just nut to your voice over the phone and hang up immediately, but …

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