Has Holding Out Become A Cliche?

So I discovered something new about myself last summer. Apparently, I’m silly for wanting to hold out and not partake in casual sex with someone I am casually seeing. (Spoken by somebody I was casually seeing of course). I know this just sounds like the usual asshole things guys say …

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5 Different Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life

  Role Play – Role playing is always fun. From doctors and nurses to playing a victim who needs rescuing by her fireman. It’s a turn on to see your partner in uniform for starters! And it’s thrilling to try to stay in character as sexual tension builds up. Really …

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The Contraception That’s Right For You

I hate condoms, like I really do, all sorts too, from the absolutely crappy brands to the incredibly feeling magnum, nothing beats skin on skin contact. I however live life on the edge like an idiot and do not recommend you forego condoms with someone you are not comfortable with. …

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The Number Between Her Legs

‘The Number Between Her Legs’ discusses women and their sexuality in this day and age. It also challenges the perception of how men and women view sexual relationships. Editor of Simply Oloni, Dami Olonisakin spoke to many young women and asked questions we’ve all wanted to know surrounding WOMEN and SEX. Why do …

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Sex And The Secrets: ‘Thank You Sir’

Each week an anonymous Simply Oloni writer will fill you in with an intimate experience of theirs. From sex stories, to a report on their love life, there will always be a column here waiting for you to indulge in. I waited patiently, counting the hours as they passed, he …

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Popping The Question

After a number of dates and 5 hour conversations, it’s clear the feelings are mutual. Your intentions are clear and so are his. Wrapped up in the emotional and mental connection are the physical ones. Dates are getting a little heated as the kisses turn into wandering hands and you’re …

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A List Of Sex Acts Banned By UK Law

On Monday a new legislation was introduced stating that some sexual acts produced in the UK has now been banned. The list that was shared was seen as ‘sexist’ and ‘arbitrary’ said critics. Here are some of the acts: Spanking Caning Aggressive whipping Penetration by any object “associated with violence” …

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Dick Is In Abundance

“Dick is in abundance, and low value” … *Pause* Just take a moment to let it sink in… I came across said quote once from a female tweeter, and as the words started to process in my mind it pretty much sparked a light bulb moment for me.  Like literally, …

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Would Bad Sex Ruin Your Relationship?

Sex can be a big deal in some relationships, because it’s where the passion is released and where love is made. It’s probably one of the biggest pleasures we have in life. Imagine finally getting comfortable enough to lie naked with your partner, only for it to fall short of …

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Interracial Sex

A week ago I was on a training programme in Birmingham and was integrated with people of different ages and ethnicities. The conversations we had were expansive and thought-provoking and saw us exploring the nuances between the existing cultures in today’s society. We were asking each other questions about the …

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