Case Of The Ex

“Just ignore her babe, she’s just jealous.” This might be the kind of thing you hear on a regular basis if you have to deal with a bitter ex-girlfriend. But have you ever thought that your man should do something about it? From rumour spreading to suspicious private-numbered drop calls, …

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Fetishes…To Be Spanked Or Not?

The first man I met with a fetish freaked me out for years, but as I’ve grown up and met people and had conversations, I’ve realised that people are as diverse in their sex life as they are in normal life and this does not mean they are any different …

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Dick Is In Abundance

“Dick is in abundance, and low value” … *Pause* Just take a moment to let it sink in… I came across said quote once from a female tweeter, and as the words started to process in my mind it pretty much sparked a light bulb moment for me.  Like literally, …

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Private vs Secret Relationships

Relationships are suppose to be a bond between two people, who have a huge amount of feelings for each other. Some express these feelings to the WORLD and want everyone to know how happy they are, whilst others rather keep it low key. I’ve always said there’s a difference between …

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The #FRIENDZONE

For the last couple of months one of the most seen hashtags on my Twitter timeline has been ‘#FriendZone’. This is a zone A LOT of people do not know even exist. They say guys and girls can’t be friends, but doesn’t the #friendzone prove otherwise? In a nutshell the …

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The Girlfriend Fluffer

I remember a few years ago reading an article by Julia Allison in Cosmopolitan discussing what it means to be a ‘Wife Fluffer’. Wife Fluffer, n. – The last girlfriend before the wife. The girlfriend who prepares a guy for the woman he’ll marry. It later hit me that although …

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Are Titles Important In Relationships?

How long do you need to move from the ‘seeing each other’ phase to being in a monogamous relationship with a title? In fact, what does ‘seeing each other’ even mean? Sleeping together? Chilling? Talking? Going out on dates?? There are couples who, technically, aren’t aware of being a couple …

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Do You Stalk His Social Networks?

Relationships are complex in today’s society, especially as we have new methods to track our partner’s behaviour, which can literally make a cat curious! There are new age technologies which could make your relationship dysfunctional if you allow them to. From checking up on what he likes on the popular …

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#SITUATIONSHIPS

Situationships can be one of the most unhealthiest bonds between a man  and woman. It’s so unhealthy that they’ve had to give it a new name. You’re in a ‘situation’, which in reality means you’re not single, but you certainly can’t see anyone else. Does being in a situationship mean …

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Keeping Your Friends Out Of Your Relationship

A few weeks ago, I had a follower on Twitter ask if she could call me… at 2am in the morning. I wanted to know what could have been so trivial for this to take place. I contemplated for a few minutes then decided to give her my phone number. I received a call …

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