Why The Friendzone Is Not A Bad Thing

The whole concept of the ‘friend zone’ has been bugging me for a while now, to a point I was almost ready to argue that it’s not even real, and if there is anything really wrong with setting a foundation of friendship in the first place. I’ve been battling the …

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Why Women Compete For Men

I want to touch on a topic (may overlap into more than one so watch this space) that I do not always feel is adequately explored, or perhaps, may not even be considered as a concern for many women. Perhaps due to the fact that we live in a ‘dog …

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Me, You and Her

The Come Back ‘My boyfriend left me for someone disrespectfully in June then asked me to take him back which I did. We started dating as we were in a long distant relationship. He left me for someone last month again. I’m in love with him but I can’t do …

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Three Tips For Handling A Breakup The Right Way

After experiencing failed relationships time and time again you may feel like you’re at your wit’s end. What options do you have if you’re incapable of maintaining a successful relationship? The stress of the breakup process may also be too much for you depending on how the relationship ended. However …

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How To Bring Some Romance Back into Valentine’s Day

For some, Valentines can be a little nerve wrecking, especially if you feel like you are stuck for ideas on how to bring a romantic spark back into your love life for this special occasion. Well not to worry, as here at Simply Oloni we have complied a few tips …

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Call Tonight For Sex And Relationship Advice

After the success of my last phone call with you all I have decided to do it AGAIN tonight from 10pm – 12am. I want to speak with YOU! I want to know what drama or dilemmas you’re facing in your love life. Relationship problems are usually either emailed to …

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When To Say Goodbye To Your Boyfriend

Sometimes when you are in a relationship – new or old – it can be hard to identify when it’s time to break up with your partner. When you’ve just gotten with someone it is easy to dismiss red flags because you want to give the relationship a chance. You’ve …

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Call For Sex And Relationship Advice EXCLUSIVELY Tonight Only

Tonight and tonight only I will be taking phone calls from Simply Oloni readers who have a sex and relationship dilemma. Relationship problems are usually either emailed to me at itsOloni@gmail.com or sent via ask.fm/Oloni – However today I want to speak to you directly and help whatever situation you’re …

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The Sting

The Borrower ‘Do you think it’s a problem if your boyfriend keeps on borrowing money from you?’ -Anonymous Yes, it is. He should have a bit of shame. You’re his girlfriend, not his sugar mama. Meet The Parent(s)  ‘Hey. I’m kinda scared of introducing my bf to my dad. He’s …

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How Long Is Too Long To Wait For A Title?

Serious question: How long is too long to wait for a title? How do you know when it’s time to move on from casual dating to being in a relationship? What does being ‘ready’ even mean? If I had £1 for every time I got into the ‘importance of titles’ …

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