16 Ways To Tell That Your ‘Potential Boyfriend’ Will Never Become Your Official Boyfriend

He’s introduced you to the family, his friends and spends every other day with you, but exactly why hasn’t the guy you’ve been dating for 3 months not made it official yet? Well, it’s because he’s part of the ‘go with the flow’ brigade. The type who gives you speeches …

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Oral Sex is Making This Common STI Difficult To Treat

Part of being sex positive means educating yourself on safe sex. It’s also important to remember that although sex comes with an enormous amount of pleasure, it can also have its negative and traumatic side. The World Health Organisation recently shared that gonorrhoea is becoming even more harder to treat. …

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10 Things You Should Stop Saying To Asexuals

What is asexuality and exactly what should we stop saying? An asexual person also known as ‘ace’ for short is someone that does not experience sexual attraction. It’s a sexual orientation. It’s that simple. Being asexual does not mean you can’t find other people attractive or want to have a …

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6 Fun Facts About The Clitoris You Didn’t Know

I’ve just come back from my holiday recently an when visiting sunny Cancun in Me-hico all I could think about was wanting to be in the privacy of my own space to masturbate after day two out there. It was not easy. I shared a room with some of my …

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Ask Oloni: ‘My Black Girlfriend Keeps Calling White Men Trash’

Your favourite sex and relationship agony aunt All dilemmas have been sent from real people and taken from www.simplyoloni.com/ask but answered in this feature Hey Oloni, I’m a female with flat nipples and I think it’s ruining my sex life. Ever since my breasts formed during puberty my nipples have …

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Why I Decided To Stop Faking My Orgasms

GRAB A ‘LAST CHANCE TICKET’ TO LAID BARE LIVE! Women faking an orgasm has been a topic of discussion for a lot of us. If we’re not talking about it amongst friends, we’re googling ways to climax during sex so we can stop perfecting our porn imitations. In fact according …

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Should Meghan Markle Be Invited to Pippa Middleton’s Wedding?

‘No ring, no bring!’  The Duchess of Cambridge’s younger sister, Pippa Middleton will be marrying hedge fund millionaire, James Matthews May 20. The two will be tying the knot at St Mark’s Church in Englefield, Berkshire. It was also announced that Meghan had received an invite to the wedding. This …

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My Bicuriousity

Would experimenting with a woman be like losing my virginity all over again? I know it sounds silly, but think about it. All I’ve known my whole sexually active life is men, and being with a woman would be a whole new experience. Have you ever felt like a sexual …

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19 Ways To Tell He’s Trying To Avoid Spending Valentine’s Day With You

Valentine’s Day is around the corner and several people are currently confused as to whether or not they’ll have plans that evening despite being in a sort-of relationship. My friend Amy is one of them. She’s been dating a guy for 6 months and shared how ‘off’ he was starting …

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5 Amazing Valentine’s Day Date Ideas In London

It’s getting closer, Simply Oloni’s favourite day is nearly here, Valentine’s Day! We’ve already given you a fun sex challenge to try out, but what about the actual date? Now of course you could typically go out to a fancy restaurant, but why not try something else this year? Below I’ve …

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