The Girlfriend Fluffer

I remember a few years ago reading an article by Julia Allison in Cosmopolitan discussing what it means to be a ‘Wife Fluffer’. Wife Fluffer, n. – The last girlfriend before the wife. The girlfriend who prepares a guy for the woman he’ll marry. It later hit me that although …

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Are Titles Important In Relationships?

How long do you need to move from the ‘seeing each other’ phase to being in a monogamous relationship with a title? In fact, what does ‘seeing each other’ even mean? Sleeping together? Chilling? Talking? Going out on dates?? There are couples who, technically, aren’t aware of being a couple …

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Do You Stalk His Social Networks?

Relationships are complex in today’s society, especially as we have new methods to track our partner’s behaviour, which can literally make a cat curious! There are new age technologies which could make your relationship dysfunctional if you allow them to. From checking up on what he likes on the popular …

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Would Bad Sex Ruin Your Relationship?

Sex can be a big deal in some relationships, because it’s where the passion is released and where love is made. It’s probably one of the biggest pleasures we have in life. Imagine finally getting comfortable enough to lie naked with your partner, only for it to fall short of …

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Interracial Sex

A week ago I was on a training programme in Birmingham and was integrated with people of different ages and ethnicities. The conversations we had were expansive and thought-provoking and saw us exploring the nuances between the existing cultures in today’s society. We were asking each other questions about the …

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#VIRGINITY

Remember when you were younger and you always thought about the perfect way as to how you’d lose your virginity. If you’re like me, you wanted it to be with someone special, someone who meant something. I get emails regularly from young girls always asking when they should have sex. …

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#SITUATIONSHIPS

Situationships can be one of the most unhealthiest bonds between a man  and woman. It’s so unhealthy that they’ve had to give it a new name. You’re in a ‘situation’, which in reality means you’re not single, but you certainly can’t see anyone else. Does being in a situationship mean …

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Keeping Your Friends Out Of Your Relationship

A few weeks ago, I had a follower on Twitter ask if she could call me… at 2am in the morning. I wanted to know what could have been so trivial for this to take place. I contemplated for a few minutes then decided to give her my phone number. I received a call …

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The 90 Days Rule

The 90 day rule must be the challenge for most men, think about it, if they know the girl they’re with is making them wait 90 days before they finally hit, doesn’t that just become more of a game? Yup a game, and who loves a good game more than …

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