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Hey! My boyfriend had his emails open in front of me and one appeared from OnlyFans – he admitted he paid $7 to subscribe to a girl for 1 month. Porn is free … how deep is this?
11. September 2023
I wouldn’t say it’s that serious. So your man likes ethical porn! If it bothers you, bring it up. Communicate, but I don’t think it’s that serious.
Oloni
Dating a man that has a baby mama and it seems like every time we see each other the next day she’s saying he can’t see his kid and he has to beg and this happens every time we see each other. Should I drop this cause I don’t want to be involved in jealous baby mama drama and I’m also scared he’s still giving her something to make her hung up on him ifywim
11. September 2023
Yeah, I’d say bounce if he’s got issues with her. Especially if it’s a pattern. You know what to do!
Oloni
Hey Oloni! I recently started dating my female friends, male bestfriend. She used to have deep feelings for him a while ago and she told me at the time, but she is now currently in a long-term relationship with someone else and they have been together for several years. Am I in the wrong for dating him? Have I violated “girl code” and does it still apply if we’re all full grown adults?
8. September 2023
You’d have to ask her how she feels. I’m sorry but if she’s been in a relationship for a long ass time, it shouldn’t matter, but that’s my opinion.
Oloni
I’ve been seeing a guy exclusively for about 8 months. We’ve been having the most amazing time, supporting each other emotionally and having the most incredible sex. We have baths, massages, and it feels like we’re a proper couple when we’re together, it feels right. Anyway, we went on holiday for two weeks last month and he’s said he’s not sure he sees me in a romantic way.. that it doesn’t feel right. Yet every time we’re together it carries on in the same couple way. It’s really confusing me, what do you think I should do?
8. September 2023
It seems like he wants a gf with no title. You know what to do, unless you’re okay with the set up.
Oloni
I was dating this guy and we stopped talking a week later he booked a holiday with his baby mama and kid then few months later we got back in touch and got back together, he said nothing happened with them it was for his son, should I be continuing things with this guy 🥴 he says he doesn’t have feelings and they been broke up for ages but in men I can’t trust
8. September 2023
LOL I don’t trust him for you either. I love that he’s coparenting in what seems a healthy way, but why did he stop communicating with you? I wouldn’t say stop talking to him, but if he’s one of many don’t prioritise him. In fact, even if he’s the only person you’re talking to be careful.
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