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Hey oloni, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 months and I’ve known him for 4 years we were friend before dating and it took us a while to get together. So the problem is that I don’t feel like I could live up to the success of my partner he’s already got two degrees at the age of 20 and I feel useless in comparison to him since I’m not going uni until later in life because of what I want to do. I’ve spoken to him about how I feel and he understands it but I still feel low about not living up to what he’s achieved and its putting a strain on our relationship
11. May 2015
You shouldn’t feel low about yourself. You should feel INSPIRED and motivated. Your journeys in life will not be the same. What do you want to do with yourself? You can be successful in plenty of other ways with or without two degrees. You’re both still very young, so take it easy and just work hard, you’ll be fine.
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11. May 2015
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Hey Oloni. I have been single for two years now and although I have learnt a lot about myself and enjoyed that time alone I am now bored and wanting to be in a loving relationship again. I fear this feeling will cause me to accidentally rush into a new relationship. Apart from that I am a shy person and don’t know how to meet new people. I have purchased all your books and they are great. A little help please x
11. May 2015
Thanks for getting a copy! Read it again, there are A LOT of similar questions there. The best way to start dating is to go out more, and not clubs but social gatherings where you can network and mix with the opposite sex. I do have an event for singles coming up in July so hopefully you can attend that.
This is a past situation but I was I in a relationship with this girl for about 4 months, she was a virgin so I didn’t want to rush her, when she finally said she was ready she kept on making stupid excuses and say she doesn’t want to anymore ( excuses like you didn’t tell me good morning) so I broke up with her just want to know if you feell i did the wrong thing
11. May 2015
She was having second thoughts and wasn’t really ready. You did the right thing by not pressuring her.
Am I over reacting. My partner whilst we were on a break took this girl on a date and admited that he wanted to sleep with her. When we got back together he still talks to her and I have ask him not to but he still talks to and say they’re just friends and I can’t tell him who to talk to. It was my birthday and after she saw he was with me she started ringing down his phone repeatedly so we got into a argument and he said I’m ungrateful amd how I’m a drama queen and he didn’t know that she was going to ring him. Am I wrong for not wanting them to talk to each other? Am I over reacting to think that she has no respect neither does he?
11. May 2015
He’s still clearly emotionally involved with this girl or is telling her another story about the two of you. No other woman should be calling off a guys line like that if there still isn’t anything going on between the two of them. You have every right to ask him to cut her off. You’re not being a drama queen, he’s be an ass wipe.
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