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Iv don’t want a relationship with the guy I’m sleeping with, he wants to make things official but I just love the sex. should I tell him I’m only using him for the deed?
13. May 2015
Just end things!
Hi Oloni, I have known this guy for 5 years now and started liking him 3 years ago now, I have poured my heart out to him about how I feel. But he has never given an answer, however he is always looking out for me like literally were a couple. Never met the family or his friends, I realise it seems like aa friend zone situation but I am confused.
13. May 2015
He likes you, but he’s not crazy about you. Find someone who is crazy about you.
Hi Oloni, Me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year now, and I’ve met his family and his friends that are at uni most of them are mutual friends anyway. However I sometimes feel like he is ashamed or embarrassed of me as he is very active on social media like instagram and tweeter whereas I’m not so much of a social media person. He tends to post pictures or snapchats of his female friends at every opportunity he gets, whereas when it comes to me he barely puts me out there on his social media. I get it could be that he likes to keep that part of his life private, but sometimes it comes across as him being ashamed that I’m not as superficial or ‘on fleek’ as these social media girls. I feel like he likes to make people think he’s single on social media. I’m used to being in a relationship where my partner is proud to flaunt me (in a respectful way of course) as it makes me feel loved and wanted. Am I just being petty, is social media just social media? Is it okay for him to not show that part of his life.
13. May 2015
I’m going to make this a #qotd – but the truth is some people can be very private whilst others can have their own reasons. Social media is like another realm for people, it’s not real. Saying that your other half should never make you feel this way or second guess yourself, so to be more secure I think you should speak to him about it.
Hey hun so I’m seeing this guy and I need to break all ties with him because it’s toxic but the sex is so good, so it’s hard to leave. What do I do?
13. May 2015
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My ex boyfriend always made me feel like I was wrong for wanting him to take me on dates and be romantic. I feel like spending time together out of the house is crucial to make a relationship work, while he thought i was dumb and pathetic for thinking in this way. My question is which one of us is right?
13. May 2015
The relationship is wrong. You both want different things.
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