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I don’t know why but boys don’t like me. The ones I like never like me back and others friend zone, it’s really not fair, a lot of my friend’s are in relationships and I always feel left out. I’ve been told to act like I don’t want someone in my life but whether I act like it or not, it never makes a difference, people never approach me. I get that the egg doesn’t swim to the sperm but I’ve even tried like giving hints and stuff but yet there’s no response. I’m at this stage where I feel I’ll never be with someone. I know it’s sounds deep but I just don’t see myself having a chance with anyone ever again.
20. May 2015
I’m sure there are guys out there who would love to be given the opportunity to date you. Problem is you’re probably looking in the same place and getting the same results. I’m going to guess you’re in your early/mid 20’s just by the facts of my blogs demographics, so calm down! This is also more of a relationship coaching question, so email me if you’re interested.
How do you tell the person you’ve been with for two and a half years that you don’t feel s connection anymore and that you think it’s best you separate for good? It has gone to the point where his presence annoys me. He cheated on me in our first year together and I forgave him but for some reason I think every little thing had built up and I’m constantly unhappy. Maybe it’s a phase I’m going through but I need to find a way to be happy again 😢
20. May 2015
You sit down and speak to him, let him know how you feel. ‘I’m not happy any more and I’ve felt like this for a while’.
It’s okay to leave something that no longer makes you smile or brings you joy.
My partner doesn’t last long when we’re having sex … Any tips on how he could last longer bcus it’s really starting too annoy me
20. May 2015
Apart from the obvious, I’d say try suggesting a toy such as a cock ring. I work in a sex toy shop and always advise men to get those as it helps.
My girlfriend keeps crying after sex. It puts me off. She tells me it has nothing to do with me and she enjoys it. She says she doesn’t know why, but every time we have intercourse she feels overwhelmed with emotion after. I find it really uncomfortable and it ruins the experience. I have tried to be supportive but it’s a bit exhausting. It makes me feel like an abuser.
18. May 2015
You need to sit her down when you’re not having sex and ask her why she gets this way. Some women do cry after an intense orgasm, but if it’s bothering you or you feel that may not be it, explain what you just told me to her.
Hi I recently well a while ago met a guy. At the begin in of our relationship he was so sweet to me I actually felt like I was the luckiest girl but I was aware of the ‘honeymoon stage’ however things were good. As of now things are not as joyful as they were before. Our conversations are so dull and I was certain that he was losing interest but he said that in no way was that the case but I can’t help but wonder as he’s taking a nonchalant attitude with me. I of course confronted him about it but he finds a way to blame me saying I’ve changed. Whenever he criticises me I take it not into offence but instead dispute my side respectfully but when I tell him things I don’t like he insults me by saying I’m mad. To add insult to injury he says he doesn’t want a relationship at the moment but he is treating us like it is one and he even has noticed. I just need help in getting my point across and to be firm with what I want. What I want is a relationship that although we argue we always make up and I don’t allow him to make me feel sad. I really do like him but at the same time I can’t see how things will get better.
18. May 2015
You NEED to have a good read of 100 Questions my latest book. Honestly this will help: https://simplyoloni.com/product/100-questions/
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