Ask me sex and relationship questions here anonymously. Please make questions as *brief* as possible to make sure you get a response. Please be aware that some dilemmas may be posted on social media platforms and cannot be removed on there or Ask Oloni once submitted. Not all questions sent can be answered due to the high amount received daily. For a QUICK response book aprivate callhere
Encouraging girls to have as much sex as they want?? Are you sure you’re preaching in the right sector. Stick to interviewing x
23. May 2015
Welp. No, I’m encouraging WOMEN to embrace their sexuality and not to live in fear because of what others think/say. Do you know how many women I speak to each day who are afraid of enjoying their sexuality because they’re afraid of being slut-shamed? I can’t imagine you do. So before you take a tweet and try and poke all types of holes into it, I suggest you take your unwarranted advice elsewhere & let me stick to interviewing, writing blogs/books/mags, hosting events appearing at events (oh & that one time I was on TV.)
i dont know who my childs father is , i never ever thought this would be me. i always judged girls who were in this situation i feel so bad i just want to kill myself, me and my bf of 8 yrs broke up and i stupidly got drunk amd slept with somebody i met at a club unprotected. i took the morning after pill but all the dates are pointing towards this other guy? i dont grt it there was a month gap inbetween both . me and my bf are back together now and he just thinks its his. i know i need to come cleani would never keep something like that from him m. i have no way of contacting other guy as indont know him what do i do
23. May 2015
You have to come clean and let him know, the longer you wait the worse things will become. I think you should also get a DNA test so YOU know who the father of your child is. I hope, everything works out.
I’ve emailed you x
22. May 2015
I don’t respond to e-mails. All dilemmas are answered here.
Hey, ive been with my bf for 3 years and have just recently found out that he has another gf (about 8months together ). He doesnt know that I know and i really love him. But this has devastated me. How do I confront him about it and move on?
22. May 2015
You pull him up on it and tell him what you found out. I know this must really hurt, but before you discuss this with him please make sure you’ve already made up your mind about what you’re actions are going to be. Will you need space from him, or has dis disloyalty hurt so much that you can’t possibly carry on with the relationship?
Hi Oloni. I been seeing this guy for 2 years now we are in a typical situationship, as of recent we’ve been going threw some really tough times as I want to make it official but he always seems to be stalling even though he says it’s what he wants and I’m his future. Communication is getting really hard and we’re talking less frequently and we see each other like every 2 weeks. Now my EX “situation” has been snapping me and tryna get in touch, and now I can’t stop thinking about him and making up scenarios in my head. I know I could never go back to him that is too messy. But what does this mean for my current guy? I don’t know if I should end it I care very deeply for him but I want a relationship not what I’m getting. How long does should a girl wait for a title?
22. May 2015
Hey, I answer a very similar questions to this in a lot of the questions asked in my eBook 100 Questions. Get it here: https://simplyoloni.com/product/100-questions/
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