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My ex boyfriend broke up with me as he said im too stressful and the rship was also stressing him out and that atm his doing his masters n really needs to concentrate without any extra stress. i understand but i dont know i should stay in contact or not. Since the official break up 2days ago (as we werent talking for a few days prior) we havent spoken. i know he has some deadlines coming so wanted to wish him luck. But my pride kinda says no as he ended things. should i implement the NCR or just wish him luck…? 3. May 2015

You don’t need to wish him good luck you’re not his girlfriend any more. If the no contact rule will help you move on then do it.

I Found out not long ago that the my FWB has had and still got a girlfriend. I honestly didn’t know. He said he don’t have feelings for her bla bla but she seems to think it’s something more.. Anyways but dilemma is do I carry on sleeping with him or should I end it. We’re just FWB so I shouldn’t care if he’s got a girlfriend right and continue? 3. May 2015

I’m sure, you know it’s not right to sleep with someone who’s in a committed relationship despite what they say. That’s just messy there are plenty of other SINGLE guys out there who you can sleep with instead.

Also from reading your fuck buddy tweets and not catching feelings and that I well have caught feelings for a guy I was only meant to be sleeping with and its literally messed me up I have told him to delete me and he won’t, I think he used to like me but I don’t know now and with him only is the sex good and I know he feels the same cause I have asked him and we really like fucking each other but it’s gotten to point where I only want to fuck him and love him and no other girl can I want to claim him but I don’t think he wants that but then I know he’s a no good guy (why do they always fuck the best! Lol) like it’s more than fucking we are acc making love sigh this is all a little confusing I don’t know why I like him so much, I’m pretty sure it’s the D just blinding me but it’s hard uno to let go of something so good plus our age is whole problem he’s 20/21 I think and I’m 16 3. May 2015

You’re 16 you shouldn’t be messing around with a 20/22yo. He’s taking advantage of you! Please do stop seeing him as it isn’t right, this can have an emotional effect on you, if you’re not careful.

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Me & my boyfriend weren’t talking for 2 days because we had a silly argument and we’re both stubborn. Eventually I text him asking of he’s ok. He ignored me so I sent another text telling him I won’t bother him again when he’s ready he knows what to do. He called but I was asleep so I just left it. A few days later I miscarried & called him straight away while it was happening. He answered and told me to go hospital immediately. Then said he would call me again when he’s around my house. It’s been 3 days, no calls, no texts to see if I’m ok. I see him online all the time so his phone is clearly active. I’ve had to deal with this alone. What do I do now? 3. May 2015

I’m so sorry to hear that you went through a miscarriage, his behaviour after what you told him has been incredibly insensitive. You need to get down to the bottom of things & ask WHY he behaved how he did, I’d say wait for him to call in any other scenario, but this is/was serious so try to get through to him again.

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