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My mrs was (to put it crudely) a hoe before we got together. She even slept with a friend of mine. Our relationship has been different and we are very serious and deeply in love. But I can’t seem to get over her past and it bugs me. What do I do? Please dont put this on social media either 3. June 2015

If you can’t move past it, then this relationship clearly isn’t for you. I suggest you speak to her & and express how you feel.


So a couple weeks ago I had a dream about my ex were he tried to make things work between us. We hadnt spoken in months or had I even thought about him, so it came as a surprise. This obviously got me thinking deeply about what used to be etc, making me realise I might miss him. Anyways weirdly enough everytime I happen to dream about someone they tend to contanct me a few days later or so (very weird I know). Anyways so after this dream I just waited on him to message me to which he did. It was a DM asking how I was and it being a long time etc. So I replied and he didnt reply back, but I could see he was very active, so I sent another message just incase he didnt see the first one, only for him to reply that he didnt send that message to me it was his girl. Now im confused as to why his “girl” (this is news to me) would send such a message to me and why does she know about me like that to be doing that. I have had no contact with him in almost 5 months. My friend thinks he was the one who sent the message and is clearly trying to get me to feel some type of way. 3. June 2015

I agree with your friend he’s playing games and trying to get to you. Unfollow him so he can play by himself.


Hey Oloni. I’m a 20 year old female, I’m a virgin and I’ve never had a boyfriend. Honestly I don’t know how it happened. No, I am not fat and I would not consider myself ugly. This may seem very bizarre but I know I’m not the only one out there in this position. Its hard because sometimes I feel so horny that I just want to give my virginity to anyone but it’s not just about sex. I really would like a guy I can trust and talk to. How do you suggest I meet guys and make myself more available? 3. June 2015

My dear you need to have a goooood read through my eBook 100 Questions.


Hi Oloni, I’ve been dating my girlfriend for a couple months and things are great. However I’ve noticed that she still seems to maintain contact with people she’s dated or has been with in the past. I don’t know if this is normal seeing as I tend to cut people off and it makes em rather uncomfortable. Am I overreacting or is this just what I should expect ? 3. June 2015

All relationships are different so if it bothers you speak up about it.


Hi Oloni, I’ve been best friends with this boy for two years now. Recently we admitted to eachother that we had feelings for one another and we had kissed but he has a girlfriend. I feel so guilty but at the same time I don’t because it feels so right yet I still feel guilty! I don’t know what to do, we talk 24/7and feelings are getting deeper- it’s becoming complicated. What do I do? 3. June 2015

He has a girlfriend. You leave the situation. How are you able to take him seriously if he’s messing with you whilst in a relationship?


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