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I’ve been seeing this guy on and off for around a year and a half, when we first starting talking I had no intentions of ever catching feelings. I really just wanted sex, but as I spent more time with him I really grew to like him, damn near love him. However he has so many other girls that he is being casual with, one girl in particular who has sent me messages of abuse and is constantly making horrible comments about me on social media. I’ve tried leaving the situation so many times but I can’t. Help!!
5. June 2015
You block every single person involved in this dilemma. You do the no contact rule and block his number so there is no way he can pop back up & you block the lady who makes nasty comments about you on social media.
If you want to move on, you will however if you tell yourself something might change or expect him to pop up again then you wont move forward.
I’m falling in love with my stepbrother. He only moved in last year and before that I had no contact with him. His dad has been with my mom since I was little and I the only father I know. We’ve already started sleeping together and our family is getting suspicious. We’re a deeply devout muslim family. His father converted to marry my mom and my stepbrother converted two years ago. What should I do?
5. June 2015
This is very messy. Soap tv messy. What are you doing sleeping with your step-brother? Nothing good is going to come out of the sexual relationship you have. The answer to this is clear, you both need to stop and find a way to stay out of each others space.
y girlfriend is in her 1st year of uni, and wants to go part time from next year because shes from Greece and she doesn’t have access to certain financial help we do. Anyways me and her have been together for a year. I’m in my second last year of my Engineering degree. We’ve been planning to get married one day and have kids however now shes really keen and wants us to have a kid shortly after I graduate. I tell her to wait till after shes finished her degree (because if shes part time shell be having it in the 2nd year) but she thinks shell be able to have a baby and still be at uni. However I want a kid as well but im not sure tbf she says shell be ready… should we?
5. June 2015
I can’t tell you what to do that’s something you both have to sit down & have a discussion about.
Hey, I have a issue to do with my ex trying to creep back. We went out first instance and broke up but on mutual terms, then after some months we got back together again on mutual terms. It was just over two years altogether. The first time we went out everything was sweet and nice honeymoon stage and all that stuff, like he would literally do everything for me and didn’t care about what anybody said. The second time however it was very different and I know people always say don’t get back with your ex but he was my first bf, he also violated me so I didn’t trust him as much anymore. So things were just really weird and it was everyday lets take a break, or i don’t wanna talk to you or why did you do this we need to talk. On a very serious level it was like a Chris Brown and Karrueche type of relationship, always going back and forth. Going to different Uni’s I didn’t trust him because of things he had done, so I went to speak with him and discussed if we should break up or separate for some months into uni and see how things go. I just wanted to save myself the heartbreak I could feel coming. Skip to uni, he randomly stops talking to me or replying to my messages, so I just took it as we were over, but then he keeps trying to creep back, saying he has changed and he misses me. He came to my uni recently to see me and nothing happened between us and I realised I don’t like him at all but he was telling bare stories and said he wants to try again but since her left he hasn’t spoken to me. What should I do? Because I know one day he is just gonna pop up
5. June 2015
Block his number & move on.
I don’t think this counts as a relationship question but anyhow I like this guy and I think I’ve made it quite obvious to him. He always initiates the convo when I see him but I just don’t know if he’s interested or whether he’s in a relationship ? Any advice ?
5. June 2015
Honestly? Just ask ‘Do you have a girlfriend?’ It’s that simple especially as you both speak already.
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